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Suck buddy: friend or someone new?

Preferably a friend...

I think all the stars would have to align and other supernatural impossibilities become true before I get my own personal suck buddy... sadly.

My preference would be for him to be a friend first. Preferably married (like me) and no previous experience with men or sucking cock (like me) - with everything to lose if our mutual sucking sessions became known to anyone.

Since he's a friend first, I could trust that when he tells me he's disease free, he really is disease free.

There's one friend of mine in particular that I can imagine getting down on my knees and servicing him. He's married, has kids, and we've known each other since high school with both of us now in our 40's. He loaned me my first porn VHS tape when I was a teenager. I've seen him naked and he has an absolutely beautiful cock and his nicely hung.

Man, I'd lick and suck his cock and balls and drain him dry of every drop of his cum. If he only knew having his jizz swallowed whenever his cock desired was only a text message away. Damn...

There were times that I tried to get him to watch porn with me just after graduating high school, but he just laughed when it was on TV and we turned it off before we could get horned up and I could suggest mutually jacking off.

Nor have I ever sensed that he is bi-curious or has similar needs/desires. Bringing the subject up might damage our friendship, but the rewards would be amazing for both of us!!!
 
CrshNBurn said:
I have yet to find one, I dont know how to approach any of my friends without them freaking out. Craigslist scares the hell out of me. I guess Im outta luck. :eek:
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Ditto for me too... asking just doesn't really come up in a normal conversation with friends
 
For me it was a friend. It happen 18 years ago. I miss it we did for a year before he move away with his gf,

I would prefere doing it with a friend than a stranger
 
ErickTheRed said:
For me it was a friend. It happen 18 years ago. I miss it we did for a year before he move away with his gf,

I would prefere doing it with a friend than a stranger
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I agree with the friend part... chances are mush better that he is safe and discrete.
 
Whispor said:
I think all the stars would have to align and other supernatural impossibilities become true before I get my own personal suck buddy... sadly.

My preference would be for him to be a friend first. Preferably married (like me) and no previous experience with men or sucking cock (like me) - with everything to lose if our mutual sucking sessions became known to anyone.

Since he's a friend first, I could trust that when he tells me he's disease free, he really is disease free.

There's one friend of mine in particular that I can imagine getting down on my knees and servicing him. He's married, has kids, and we've known each other since high school with both of us now in our 40's. He loaned me my first porn VHS tape when I was a teenager. I've seen him naked and he has an absolutely beautiful cock and his nicely hung.

Man, I'd lick and suck his cock and balls and drain him dry of every drop of his cum. If he only knew having his jizz swallowed whenever his cock desired was only a text message away. Damn...

There were times that I tried to get him to watch porn with me just after graduating high school, but he just laughed when it was on TV and we turned it off before we could get horned up and I could suggest mutually jacking off.

Nor have I ever sensed that he is bi-curious or has similar needs/desires. Bringing the subject up might damage our friendship, but the rewards would be amazing for both of us!!!
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Thank you for posting. I hope that you are able to realize your fantasy some day!
 
bi69todd said:
For those of you fortunate enough to have (or have had) a suck buddy, I am interested to know if it was a friend that you had before that became a FWB or did you go out and meet someone new to satisfy your craving for cock?

FYI: for me it was a friend! ;) although I did meet someone new (and very hot!) through Lit as well so I guess you could say I go both ways! :D
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I was bi-curious and frequented a favorite amateur porn site. Chatted with a guy who lived close (but not too close). We met, we stroked...awkward - met once more, stroked again...more comfortable; met a third time and traded BJs. Still wanting to meet again but scheduling is difficult. I am stealthy perv and discretion is critical.
 
Whispor said:
I think all the stars would have to align and other supernatural impossibilities become true before I get my own personal suck buddy... sadly.

My preference would be for him to be a friend first. Preferably married (like me) and no previous experience with men or sucking cock (like me) - with everything to lose if our mutual sucking sessions became known to anyone.

Since he's a friend first, I could trust that when he tells me he's disease free, he really is disease free.

There's one friend of mine in particular that I can imagine getting down on my knees and servicing him. He's married, has kids, and we've known each other since high school with both of us now in our 40's. He loaned me my first porn VHS tape when I was a teenager. I've seen him naked and he has an absolutely beautiful cock and his nicely hung.

Man, I'd lick and suck his cock and balls and drain him dry of every drop of his cum. If he only knew having his jizz swallowed whenever his cock desired was only a text message away. Damn...

There were times that I tried to get him to watch porn with me just after graduating high school, but he just laughed when it was on TV and we turned it off before we could get horned up and I could suggest mutually jacking off.

Nor have I ever sensed that he is bi-curious or has similar needs/desires. Bringing the subject up might damage our friendship, but the rewards would be amazing for both of us!!!
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This is excacly where I was a couple mouths ago. I filnaly hinted a couple thing while on FB PMing.
He came back and flirted back at me. We then started talking about how we needed to chat privately.
We got together a few weeks ago and had a great time, come to find out he had wanted me for a long time also.
 
Personally, I think it should be someone new, and maybe with some experience. But that's just me.7
 
Wish the wife and I could find someone that could become a routine partner. Would be pretty fun to have someone over to play with.
 
Whispor said:
I think all the stars would have to align and other supernatural impossibilities become true before I get my own personal suck buddy... sadly.

My preference would be for him to be a friend first. Preferably married (like me) and no previous experience with men or sucking cock (like me) - with everything to lose if our mutual sucking sessions became known to anyone.

Since he's a friend first, I could trust that when he tells me he's disease free, he really is disease free.

There's one friend of mine in particular that I can imagine getting down on my knees and servicing him. He's married, has kids, and we've known each other since high school with both of us now in our 40's. He loaned me my first porn VHS tape when I was a teenager. I've seen him naked and he has an absolutely beautiful cock and his nicely hung.

Man, I'd lick and suck his cock and balls and drain him dry of every drop of his cum. If he only knew having his jizz swallowed whenever his cock desired was only a text message away. Damn...

There were times that I tried to get him to watch porn with me just after graduating high school, but he just laughed when it was on TV and we turned it off before we could get horned up and I could suggest mutually jacking off.

Nor have I ever sensed that he is bi-curious or has similar needs/desires. Bringing the subject up might damage our friendship, but the rewards would be amazing for both of us!!!
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Oh wow - this describes me to a T. Even the experience with a friend - same story. Only we could never get to that next step. he knew, and I knew, that we were both totally hard, trying to rub our cocks through our shorts and just kept watching the porn but could not "open up." Damn, I regret that night often.

Instead, he stands up says he needs to use the washroom and 10 minutes later returns with - obviously - no hardon. I wait a minute a and do the same. Only I last about 30 seconds and splash a few ropes of come in to the sink in no time. Funny thing, when I returned o the room, the movie is still on but he didn't hear me, and his hand was deep back into his shorts trying to stroke his cock without being seen. Probably my cue to say hi, what you doing but I never did. Sigh.
 
powerstrokin said:
It takes a bit of risk like you first did on chat. Great to hear it can happen. There is an old middle school friend I see on fb and he is out. I see his posts on cl from time to time but his interests seem to be for younger fit males. I am not unfit but no longer a younger male to be sure. Don't k ow maybe I will reach out to him one day.
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Good luck. I'm now searching - and being very patient - for the guy to be like me: just wants to stroke together, eachother, and at least once a week. But also, take in a game, enjoy a beer, talk sports, golf...and then come in our hands! ;)

My post on CL is wordy, long on detail and most of the responses are the typical...but finally this morning, an interesting thoughtful email from a guy who is the same as me by all accounts: nervous, eager, afraid, wanting, desperate to touch another cock, maybe suck too, but cautious too. Wish me (us) luck.
 
TinaAndy76 said:
Good luck. I'm now searching - and being very patient - for the guy to be like me: just wants to stroke together, eachother, and at least once a week. But also, take in a game, enjoy a beer, talk sports, golf...and then come in our hands! ;)

My post on CL is wordy, long on detail and most of the responses are the typical...but finally this morning, an interesting thoughtful email from a guy who is the same as me by all accounts: nervous, eager, afraid, wanting, desperate to touch another cock, maybe suck too, but cautious too. Wish me (us) luck.
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I certainly wish you luck. I understand exactly where you are coming from. (No pun intended)
 
newcouple1128 said:
Wish the wife and I could find someone that could become a routine partner. Would be pretty fun to have someone over to play with.
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It's hard to find that level of trust so the person isn't posting your private business on social media.

We're definitely not into the random hook up and we have to establish a relationship of trust first so we know everything is safe and discrete. It's funny, but wife has no desires to bring another female around to participate. She doesn't mind another watching with her, but our experience hs only been with another male so that's fine with us both.

And in our case, my best friend since gradeschool. He doesn't usually do anything bi, but the prospect of a three way and him agreeing to letting her dictate the action was intriguing enough to get him to try it. He and I have shared lots in our friendship and while he's not really on board with reciprocation at this point, he likes the kink of it all.

So while ours isn't really a "suck buddy" relationship not including the wife, it may progress to that at some point and I'm fine with that. Don't know if he's as into it as me, but again time will tell.
 
powerstrokin said:
It takes a bit of risk like you first did on chat. Great to hear it can happen. There is an old middle school friend I see on fb and he is out. I see his posts on cl from time to time but his interests seem to be for younger fit males. I am not unfit but no longer a younger male to be sure. Don't k ow maybe I will reach out to him one day.
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I have a friend also that I 'think' has looked me up and down on occasions and would love to think he might be interested but I am way to scared to broach the subject with him. I've no idea how to without too much risk of being totally wrong and ruining a great friendship. How can I possibly drop a hint without being too open? Difficult.
 
txfuncouple said:
It's hard to find that level of trust so the person isn't posting your private business on social media.

We're definitely not into the random hook up and we have to establish a relationship of trust first so we know everything is safe and discrete. It's funny, but wife has no desires to bring another female around to participate. She doesn't mind another watching with her, but our experience hs only been with another male so that's fine with us both.

And in our case, my best friend since gradeschool. He doesn't usually do anything bi, but the prospect of a three way and him agreeing to letting her dictate the action was intriguing enough to get him to try it. He and I have shared lots in our friendship and while he's not really on board with reciprocation at this point, he likes the kink of it all.

So while ours isn't really a "suck buddy" relationship not including the wife, it may progress to that at some point and I'm fine with that. Don't know if he's as into it as me, but again time will tell.
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Great post. Wish I traveled to Texas once & awhile...

I agree totally - not interested in some random thing. really want to explore this more with a like-minded couple - take things slow - converse, communicate and see where things go socially, let alone in a bedroom.

Completely interested in being a part of someone's fantasy, especially the bi side whereby we all get comfortable and then enjoy each others dreams, desires. And to have the wife watch us both in some way - totally love the idea we are 'relaxing" and she can just lie back and enjoy the moment. Not to mention just watching the two of you... ;)
 
TinaAndy76 said:
Great post. Wish I traveled to Texas once & awhile...

I agree totally - not interested in some random thing. really want to explore this more with a like-minded couple - take things slow - converse, communicate and see where things go socially, let alone in a bedroom.

Completely interested in being a part of someone's fantasy, especially the bi side whereby we all get comfortable and then enjoy each others dreams, desires. And to have the wife watch us both in some way - totally love the idea we are 'relaxing" and she can just lie back and enjoy the moment. Not to mention just watching the two of you... ;)
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Never underestimate the excitement of the "random thing."
 
MoleskineScribbler said:
Never underestimate the excitement of the "random thing."
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Not underestimating at all....just with our situation, discretion and trust more important, and with that comes the payoff of getting to play without protection so sucking and fucking take on a whole different level. I like being able to swallow the payoff of a blowjob well done or cleaning up as I lick multiple cums out of my wife.
 
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bi69todd said:
Great advice! ! Don't give up because it's so awesome when you do finally find one!

Thanks to everyone who responded so far. Special thanks to those who took time out to PM me. I love talking about this!
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So it's really that good huh? I can't wait for my first time.
 
TinaAndy76 said:
Good luck. I'm now searching - and being very patient - for the guy to be like me: just wants to stroke together, eachother, and at least once a week. But also, take in a game, enjoy a beer, talk sports, golf...and then come in our hands! ;)

My post on CL is wordy, long on detail and most of the responses are the typical...but finally this morning, an interesting thoughtful email from a guy who is the same as me by all accounts: nervous, eager, afraid, wanting, desperate to touch another cock, maybe suck too, but cautious too. Wish me (us) luck.
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I have struck out with CL 100% of the time, I offered to meet a guy tomorrow morning to suck him and now he has vanished too. Maybe you would be so kind and PM me your CL ad. Mine have come up empty. And I wish you good luck.

Golf! You mentioned, my fantasy that I would like to bring to real life. Cobble together a foursome and suck all of them. There are a lot of hiding places on golf courses. I could get at theirs cocks by just pushing their golf shorts pant leg.

Back on topic, I want to suck a cock. I am open to whatever would happen afterwards. It would have to be with someone new though. A new friend, I would not out myself with my current group of friends or family.
 
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tonycurinmass said:
So it's really that good huh? I can't wait for my first time.
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I can guaran-damn-tee it! Cock play and cock sucking and frot with the right partner is absolutely amazing!!! My sincere hope is that everyone reading this thread has the opportunity to try it.
 
Well, as of today, after 11 AM?

I have been invited to lunch with two gentleman. :) Someone new that might turn into a long term friendship. My wife is so very keen. :D
 
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Whispor said:
I think all the stars would have to align and other supernatural impossibilities become true before I get my own personal suck buddy... sadly.

My preference would be for him to be a friend first. Preferably married (like me) and no previous experience with men or sucking cock (like me) - with everything to lose if our mutual sucking sessions became known to anyone.

Since he's a friend first, I could trust that when he tells me he's disease free, he really is disease free.

There's one friend of mine in particular that I can imagine getting down on my knees and servicing him. He's married, has kids, and we've known each other since high school with both of us now in our 40's. He loaned me my first porn VHS tape when I was a teenager. I've seen him naked and he has an absolutely beautiful cock and his nicely hung.

Man, I'd lick and suck his cock and balls and drain him dry of every drop of his cum. If he only knew having his jizz swallowed whenever his cock desired was only a text message away. Damn...

There were times that I tried to get him to watch porn with me just after graduating high school, but he just laughed when it was on TV and we turned it off before we could get horned up and I could suggest mutually jacking off.

Nor have I ever sensed that he is bi-curious or has similar needs/desires. Bringing the subject up might damage our friendship, but the rewards would be amazing for both of us!!!
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Man Sounds like my perfect scenario of what I wish I could find in a buddy
 
Two points

First, "Thanks" to all who have posted for the education and (indirect) encouragement.

Second, regarding the OP's question, "Suck buddy: friend or someone new?" -- I'm still hoping to find out.
 
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