What is your idea of good foreplay?

4215 said:

Been following this exchange and possibly maturity is a key here , the exception is being in a new relationship where all emotions are super charged and the animal takes over .
Foreplay is the essence of pleasing your partner for me , deep-kissing is a magical experience , kissing everywhere, tip to toe but slowly building the sexual tension until the inevitable happens
Let the fuckfest begin !!!

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Charged emotions are very hot in foreplay, and with kissing also. Science can explain the addiction of good kissing. Me? I see kissing as the apex of a shared interconnectedness between two people. Also kissing is always that great climax to every great love story, rom com and chick flick. Kissing is very sexual, and sensual.
Fuckfest, why I do recognize that word as being one of my own

Aphroditiac said:

It starts long before the clothing comes off.

The best sex begins between the ears.

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Yes, its stimulation sets the scene, creates the mood, the emotion and the desire the want. It is the best sexual organ we have.

My idea of foreplay??

sidonie45 said:

What is your idea of good foreplay? I’m not talking about cock pulling or nipple twisting etc. I’m talking about knowing your partners hot zones, and sensuously honing in on them and making your partner lost in what your doing to them. What do you do to sexually tease them?

One of the things I like to do is to play with the ear. I like to trace the outside of the ear and its ridges with the tip of my tongue. I'm not talking wet Willie.

Also sucking and nibbling on the lobe, and light kisses and light licks behind the ear. Sometime holding his chin so he cant come in for a kiss because he likes it so.

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Slow and deliberate! I start off with long sensuous kisses; we slowly undress; I gently blow in her ear as I run my tongue around her ear lobes; I kiss the nape of her neck as I caress her breasts from behind and feel her erect nipples as she feels my erection against her backside.

Then and only then do I move her to my bed lying back as I caress her inner thighs with my fingers and my tongue.

Then I lick her labia --- inner and outer...

xblazex said:

For me it is when he nuzzles my shoulder or neck from behind. Also kissing the tips of my ears. That is usually a good start in my opinion.

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Nuzzling is a big part of the bonding experience. Its how mothers and babies bond.
It's also how we as adults bond, and is a great part of foreplay. We allow the other person we care about to enter our personal space, and be comfortable with them. Their scent imprints on us as we inhale their closeness. It all feels so comfy warm, sweet and tender. It’s always a favorite of mine.

Carnevil9 said:

Washing the dishes, followed by a half hour of begging.

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Wow. I don’t know what to make of that except LMAO.

Hipshot1554 said:

Start with kissing, touching, nibbling, and whispering. If she likes having her pussy eaten, I approach that slowly. I begin kissing my way down her neck to her breasts, lingering there a little, down her belly, past her pussy to her thighs. Gentle nibbles back to up to her pussy lips.

Whispering into her pussy sometimes turns a lover on. Switching up, dip and lick (if she likes that).

Foreplay can be anything that feels good and prolongs the pleasure.

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Whispering into her pussy sometimes turns a lover on Now that's a wow factor right there Switching up, dip and lick Wow!
Um, I think I might have to change my panties.
I also like the inside of my thighs lightly licked and kissed. Tantalizingly close to that sweet spot, but frustratingly not.

Tomahawk26 said:

For what I like for foreplay, I'll second the neck kissing. I also like foreplay to start hours before sex with some hot texts about what he wants to do to me. Once he gets home, rubbing his cock against my ass or slipping his fingers between my legs (all clothed) while I'm cooking or doing whatever is a good way to remind me he wants me later.

For him, he actually likes a lot of the same things--sending him sexy photos, telling him who I've been talking to and what we've been talking about; once he gets home, grabbing his cock through clothes, walking by him and on the couch and leaning in for a light kiss that turns a little sloppy... I also like to greet him at the door, dressed up in some tarty lingerie.

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OMG! Yes your foreplay does last for hours. Keeping it erotic, stimulated, sexy and real. I do like this foreplay of mental stimulation, its just as potent, if not then more so, than physical, because you have to wait to touch, to caress etc. Ahhh yes!

A slap on the arse and being told to get in the bedroom.

rainbowdash30 said:

A slap on the arse and being told to get in the bedroom.

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In a similar vein - Brace yourself

MrEd63 said:

In a similar vein - Brace yourself

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"Brace yourself, Agnes, it's that time of year again."

sidonie45 said:

Whispering into her pussy sometimes turns a lover on Now that's a wow factor right there Switching up, dip and lick Wow!
Um, I think I might have to change my panties.
I also like the inside of my thighs lightly licked and kissed. Tantalizingly close to that sweet spot, but frustratingly not.


OMG! Yes your foreplay does last for hours. Keeping it erotic, stimulated, sexy and real. I do like this foreplay of mental stimulation, its just as potent, if not then more so, than physical, because you have to wait to touch, to caress etc. Ahhh yes!

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Sorry I just thought of a new porn title (The Pussy Whisperer)

rainbowdash30 said:

A slap on the arse and being told to get in the bedroom.

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Or just to bend over, so like the way you think, look and where you keep your pens!

Since Foreplay is about instigating and growing arousal for me it often starts with a statement that stimulates her mind, especialy in a way that will allow her to actually create her own fantasy - for example;
'i've bought a new toy and i can't wait to see your reaction...' ....or
'if you knew what i have in mind for you'....

often for us playtime due to work/family is agreed as a day or night ahead, and quite often can involve a little roleplay or acting out, so we may well trade emails or texts to set a scene.

As for physical foreplay, it really depends for us on the nature of our 'playdate' - which typically could vary from vanilla through to something a little kinkier with bondage. For the former often a massage ( especially one where i work on her sacral area ) will have her go from relaxed to horny in no time. Other less obvious areas would be; lightly stroking the back of her neck/hair, same with her forehead, upper/outer arms, anklesand of course kissing.

But for the latter (light bondage ) often the setting helps create her arousal. Tied to a chair and watching a bit of the type of porn that she likes - if i move around behind her - i know that she's wondering what will happen next. Timed right a few gentle touches and whispers in her ear will give her the 1st small twinge of pleasure.

Overall, i guess that letting or making her mind work is the greatest 'foreplay tool'...

When you actually have to wake her with a nice warmed towel. That's when you know the for play wad good. Use the towel and continue, because for play should never stop.

heatseekher2 said:

Since Foreplay is about instigating and growing arousal for me it often starts with a statement that stimulates her mind, especialy in a way that will allow her to actually create her own fantasy .....

But for the latter (light bondage ) often the setting helps create her arousal. Tied to a chair and watching a bit of the type of porn that she likes - if i move around behind her - i know that she's wondering what will happen next. Timed right a few gentle touches and whispers in her ear will give her the 1st small twinge of pleasure.

Overall, i guess that letting or making her mind work is the greatest 'foreplay tool'...

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WOW. You just stroked my mind. You seem to like to plant the seed of anticipation. What a lucky women to have a man so switched on in making her world rock, combined with light bondage I know I can feel it doing me good.

I just received new underwear in the mail. Now I m wondering what I'd look like in them with some light bondage.

simpletimes said:

When you actually have to wake her with a nice warmed towel. That's when you know the for play wad good. Use the towel and continue, because for play should never stop.

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What are you doing with the towel?

sidonie45 said:

What are you doing with the towel?

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Taking care of my lady. The warm towel is to clean her and to help her regain conscientious. A gentleman always cares for his lady.

The best I ever did was using hypnosis. 2nd best was getting really drunk.

After I learned how to do hypnosis she and I were discussing us having sex, she made it clear I wasn't gonna get any, and I said I'LL GET IT WITH HYPNOSIS. She laughed at me and called hypnosis bull crap, and I said WATCH THIS! And she then got an orgasm in her big toe that spread up her leg to her crotch. And while she sat there astounded I said, LEMME KNOW WHEN YOU WANT ME TO JOIN IN.

mILTON eERICKSON MD usta hypnotize paralyzed women to have orgasms in their boobs.

With the drunk thing she complained how the booze would make me limp and impotent, so I pulled down my shorts to show her she was wrong about the limp part, and then I showed her how the impotent idea was nonsense, too.

WOW. You just stroked my mind. You seem to like to plant the seed of anticipation. What a lucky women to have a man so switched on in making her world rock, combined with light bondage I know I can feel it doing me good.

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Anticipation sets expectations and stimulates picture building, creating the arousal that we all crave. Even better when there's a slight time delay, when nothing can happen - whispering at a party ' you look so hot, if you knew how much i want to make you cum'.....well you get the picture, an hour or two of images/desire buidling before needs can be taken care of....

I just received new underwear in the mail. Now I m wondering what I'd look like in them with some light bondage.

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Underwear is the gilded frame to the masterpiece, framing, highlighting, drawing the eye - its the prelude to what follows; Feeling sexy = being sexy. As for what you'll look like with a little bondage thrown in - guess that depends on what restraint you favour and the colour....then again, your imagination may have already moved to the next chapter.

Freebird49 said:

Slow and deliberate! I start off with long sensuous kisses; we slowly undress; I gently blow in her ear as I run my tongue around her ear lobes; I kiss the nape of her neck as I caress her breasts from behind and feel her erect nipples as she feels my erection against her backside.

Then and only then do I move her to my bed lying back as I caress her inner thighs with my fingers and my tongue.

Then I lick her labia --- inner and outer...

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Owww you ticked all my boxes. The lobes, neck, inner thighs. Love them all.

Lightly stroking her inner thighs, running up to the joint between her leg and her crotch, changing sides and getting close to her lips. If her juices are not flowing over her lips when my fingers get there I scoop precum off my cock and use it to slide fingers over her lips and eventually her clit.

Good foreplay really depends on the mood, need and situation. Do we want to make love (you know, intense and passionate PiV or pegging), do we want to get kinky, do we want to create a proper BDSM / fetish scene, how do I want to treat him etc etc?

One of the most delicious types of foreplay is when it goes on all day. It's usually when hubby does press (he works with various art and culture projects) and I'm hanging out with him. It doesn't happen often these days, so that makes it all the more special. On those occasions we both dress well and there's the tension of meeting loads of people. Then I watch him do his thing while he looks super good and he really puts an effort in to flirt with me all day! Usually that ends up with exploding sex. Can't put a finger on it really, but it just does.

Then there are those times when he takes me out to dinner, we talk, exchange quick cuddles with our hands and feet, smile a lot and even feel a bit shy in the best possible way! Those nights you kind of fall in love with each other again. Then we might feed each other champagne and sugar (tip your finger in the sugar, let the other suck it off and then give them a sip of champagne to go with it), which of course leads to kissing and you guess the rest.

Sometimes our foreplay is more aggressive. I might for example order him on the floor when I come home from work and tell him to eat me out. Or I might force him to take a shower fully clothed and masturbate through his jeans. Or I might tie him. Or tell him to wait for me naked while standing in a corner. Or or or... you get the drift. When I'm in the mood for that type of kinky stuff I hardly ever need any physical stimulation, I'm totally wet and swollen by the time he eventually touches me.

Sometimes the only foreplay I need is if he is feeling very submissive and acts it out. Seeing him all giggly and slutty, begging to be treated like a human sex toy makes me crazy with lust just like that.

We love each others bodies, so physically our foreplay is all about exploring the other as much as possible. Finding the hidden truths our bodies give out. Lots of licks, hot sighs and caressing. Kissing is absolutely essential, I want endless kisses that make my girly bits throb. I love getting fingered and licked as well, so for me proper foreplay includes either or both. I also want to spend a good while on his dick, warming it up to endure what ever I feel like throwing at it. I get wet just from giving him a handjob, so that's a real thrill.

I'm lucky enough to say that even after many years of being together, I still get turned on just by watching him and being physically close. Sometimes even by just thinking of him. He really is the physical manifestation of my desire, which I'm eternally grateful for.

good foreplay is light kissing and dirty words - being a naughty tease

sidonie45 said:

I’m talking about knowing your partners hot zones, and sensuously honing in on them and making your partner lost in what your doing to them. What do you do to sexually tease them?

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And since I didn't answer the actual question o), I might write a bit more.

Hubby seems to love it when I lick his boy bits through his underwear. My fingers gently touching his butt crack and hole is a good one as well. He enjoys having his nipples licked and I let him suck on my breasts as well (which is not very physically enjoyable for me). Earlobe licking is a classic for a reason.

I adore my hubby's thighs and butt, so I always try to give them lots of attention. Licking his inner and back thighs gives us both proper goose pimples.

He gets instantly hard if his mouth earns an access to my pussy. It's something he can feast on for literally hours, I even remember a time when he nearly came from it alone without any dick stimulation.

Still the best kind of tease is probably having lots of orgasms myself (during foreplay and while having actual sex) but never letting him know beforehand if he will be getting one. Or what type of an orgasm even. And all those times when he's wearing a cock cage (perhaps been wearing it already for a week or more) and I take him out for his nightly wash.... that is like teasing on steroids!

Fore play is when you need to get a warm cloth and clean your wonan as she is passef out on the bed from cumming/squirting so much her body can't take more.
That is when you get your wash cloth warm and wet, you wake you're lady with gentle touches, let her regain, bring her off again. Only then can you let her take care of you

NOIRTRASH said:

The best I ever did was using hypnosis. 2nd best was getting really drunk.
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Well you wont score anything with me. I can't be hypnotized.
Very unusual methods you use Noirtrash

sexy1017924 said:

good foreplay is light kissing and dirty words - being a naughty tease

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I've only just had dirty words used on me.
The first time it happened, I was both shocked, and extremely aroused at the same time.
This is wicked fun foreplay. Spicy as all hell

MissJW said:

Good foreplay really depends on the mood, need and situation.

We love each others bodies, so physically our foreplay is all about exploring the other as much as possible. Finding the hidden truths our bodies give out. Lots of licks, hot sighs and caressing. Kissing is absolutely essential, I want endless kisses that make my girly bits throb. I love getting fingered and licked as well, so for me proper foreplay includes either or both. I also want to spend a good while on his dick, warming it up to endure what ever I feel like throwing at it. I get wet just from giving him a handjob, so that's a real thrill.

I'm lucky enough to say that even after many years of being together, I still get turned on just by watching him and being physically close. Sometimes even by just thinking of him. He really is the physical manifestation of my desire, which I'm eternally grateful for.

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Wow, what a roller coaster ride description, and to end like this. Its well and good when two people who are just so right for each other are actually in the same relationship.
Thanks for sharing. After reading that, I think I’m in need of some aftercare.

MissJW said:

Hubby seems to love it when I lick his boy bits through his underwear. My fingers gently touching his butt crack and hole is a good one as well. He enjoys having his nipples licked and I let him suck on my breasts as well (which is not very physically enjoyable for me). Earlobe licking is a classic for a reason.

I adore my hubby's thighs and butt, so I always try to give them lots of attention. Licking his inner and back thighs gives us both proper goose pimples.

He gets instantly hard if his mouth earns an access to my pussy. It's something he can feast on for literally hours, I even remember a time when he nearly came from it alone without any dick stimulation.

Still the best kind of tease is probably having lots of orgasms myself (during foreplay and while having actual sex) but never letting him know beforehand if he will be getting one. Or what type of an orgasm even. And all those times when he's wearing a cock cage (perhaps been wearing it already for a week or more) and I take him out for his nightly wash.... that is like teasing on steroids!

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My goodness. I did kinda get that your both knew how to turn each other on from your first post. This just compounds it. I feel like I need a cigarette. Pity I don’t smoke

I've always been an aural kinda guy. So for me, it's been cuddling up in bed once we've got an empty house. Listening to her breathing as my hands slowly caress her intensely hot skin. Starting with her lower back, giving her a delicate massage, more caressing than massaging.

I know I've got her attention when her breath catches for but a moment before she sighs. Her feet stretch out in search of mine under the covers and her body turns into mine. Pressing her still half asleep body into mine, my fingers lightly tease her; playing with the waist band of her barely there shorts. Following along the fabric to her inner thighs, my lips beginning to nibble lightly on her ears before trickling gentle kisses down her neck.

I'll wait, knowingly, until I feel the pressure of her palm seeking my throbbing member along the front of my boxers before I allow my fingertips to slip under the delicate fabric of her shorts. Feeling her swollen and juicy bits through her shorts, my fingertip searches for the barely noticeable hardness that is her clit. Finding it, I enjoy teasing her... making her shiver and beg as I slide and scratch around.

My hand leaving her waist to explore the hardness I know I'll find below her shirt. I know as soon as my tongue slips through my lips and slices delicately along the underside of her chin, she'll be mine for the morning.