kezzstar24
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- Nov 2, 2018
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I posted this on the Authors board, but it was suggested I ask here for an answer too.
I'm new to the BDSM culture (no idea if I'm a sub, a dom, both or neither at the moment), and the way I explore myself is by writing. I tend to be a bit of a sulker and can be quite stubborn (I'm working on it) and I want to explore that in my latest writing, including how it affects others. I also have Aspergers Syndrome, so things that should be obvious when it comes to people and how they react aren't so obvious to me.
In the story I'm writing, a married couple have a D/s relationship. In this "episode", rightly or wrongly, the dom punishes the sub for an infraction but instead of a cathartic release, the sub starts to feel resentful and remains sullen through aftercare/refuses aftercare outright (not sure which would be better yet).
What would be a) the ideal reaction from the dom leading to a resolution and b) what would be the realistic reaction from the dom?
Thanks in advance!
I'm new to the BDSM culture (no idea if I'm a sub, a dom, both or neither at the moment), and the way I explore myself is by writing. I tend to be a bit of a sulker and can be quite stubborn (I'm working on it) and I want to explore that in my latest writing, including how it affects others. I also have Aspergers Syndrome, so things that should be obvious when it comes to people and how they react aren't so obvious to me.
In the story I'm writing, a married couple have a D/s relationship. In this "episode", rightly or wrongly, the dom punishes the sub for an infraction but instead of a cathartic release, the sub starts to feel resentful and remains sullen through aftercare/refuses aftercare outright (not sure which would be better yet).
What would be a) the ideal reaction from the dom leading to a resolution and b) what would be the realistic reaction from the dom?
Thanks in advance!