So to update from my previous thread (how to deal with a breaking down marraige)
I have moved out of our house for a few weeks and visiting my parents and friends from home (200 miles from my married home)
I miss my cats and my wife but i know i need this time away. i have accepted the marraige is over and we have talked about dividing up our stuff and the house without any problems or arguments.
But whilst i am here i have been in contact with an old friend (female)
we are talking about meeting up later in the week to catch up. she made a point of telling me her kids are away staying with there dad ( they split up a few years ago) and she will be alone in the house all weekend.
Do i go to her house or meet her in a bar for a few drinks then go home alone?
i know things could get quite heated and we have history so not to sure what would happen if anything and would i feel guilty if it was just a one night stand/ rebound after the marraige breakdown?
I have moved out of our house for a few weeks and visiting my parents and friends from home (200 miles from my married home)
I miss my cats and my wife but i know i need this time away. i have accepted the marraige is over and we have talked about dividing up our stuff and the house without any problems or arguments.
But whilst i am here i have been in contact with an old friend (female)
we are talking about meeting up later in the week to catch up. she made a point of telling me her kids are away staying with there dad ( they split up a few years ago) and she will be alone in the house all weekend.
Do i go to her house or meet her in a bar for a few drinks then go home alone?
i know things could get quite heated and we have history so not to sure what would happen if anything and would i feel guilty if it was just a one night stand/ rebound after the marraige breakdown?