63 yr old bicurious married male 231 area

west michigan 63 yr old wm,married i.e.discretion very important still(!!!) looking for like minded male interested in neutral first meetup,coffee etc had some teen experimentation with blowjobs and would like to start with that but having trouble finding same interests and criteria but no one seems to have any interest in meeting first then moving on to fun and games.5'9 200ish lbs,very much non smoker for what it's worth.