CreamOnBlackVelvet
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- Jan 8, 2014
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I've been casually interested in the BDSM lifestyle for a while -the leather, the ropes, the role playing- but I'm having a hard time figuring out where and if I belong there. My problem is that I'm a fairly small, kind, and obliging sort of woman. I'm not really into causing serious pain (I don't consider biting and scratching serious) and I don't really want to scream abuse at anyone either. At the same time, I like being in control, I really like the idea of tying my partners up and teasing them mercilessly, and there is NOTHING about the sub lifestyle that appeals to me.
Is there such a thing as a softcore domme? Is dominance the kind of thing that can be taught, or does it have to come naturally? Did you always know your role, or did it take some experimenting?
Any kind of advice would be appreciated.
Is there such a thing as a softcore domme? Is dominance the kind of thing that can be taught, or does it have to come naturally? Did you always know your role, or did it take some experimenting?
Any kind of advice would be appreciated.