Strap-on experiences

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Using a strap on is as much of a psychological experience as a physical sensation.

To begin a scene with the sub on his (her to be inserted if you prefer) knees, collared and leashed and awaiting instructions in how to be a pleasing cock sucker can be an interesting diversion from the simple "on your back slut!"

Taking the hard black phallis in My hand I like to stroke it with a mean looking fist as My voice lowers with My expectations. Being explicit on what I expect in the worshipping of this tool of torment or pleasure.

Pulling firmly upon the leash, forcing the sub to cover the short distance between us on his knees until I have directed his mouth over the cock with My hand on the back of his head and the leash tight in My grip. Telling him when to open his mouth, how to take Me slowly and respectfully, deeply, softly and passionately. Teaching him how to use his teeth in a delicate way, up and down the shaft. Explaining why the head needs special attention to please Me. Directing him to worship this phallis with butterfly kisses and gentle licks as I torment him with the thought that this just might be a training for the day I will insist he entertain Me with the cock of a Dom in his slutty mouth.

I expect perfection in every lesson I teach and will keep him sucking, kissing and licking until I see progress and reality in his obedience.
My mistress preferred me sucking her black dildo over screwing my ass. She taught me to deep throat without choking.
 
Skilled lady

my harness also stimulates my clit - so: yes, i can :)

I found that massage therapist are not only sensual but opens to sexual experimentation. I found a lady in the paper and excellent masseuse willing to try new things. We talked on the phone about strapon sex and she told me to bring my toys. In less than an hour of the call I was bent over a chair getting it in the ass. I became her slave working naked around her house cooking and keeping her company.
With the right dildo that hits the clitoral area my massage therapist could give herself a clitoral orgasm and me a prostate orgasm. She was a skilled lady with a dildo. She liked placing me sideways over her massage table screwing me for a full hour until she orgasmed and gave me several prostate orgasms. She loved wearing!
 
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I always see the post about using a strap on on a man, but do any of you make him submit to it by having him suck it also?
Yes my wife makes me suck on hers, she can barely contain herself and wants to fuck my face hard. It doesn't take long before she has it elsewhere.
 
So she has used the dildo without a harness a few times. Not really into the submissive stuff but let her put some toys in my ass. I did have multiple organisms, actually it felt like I was cumming the whole time. The first time was so so, but I was more comfortable after that and let myself feel the pleasure. She isn't really interested in strapping it on but she likes to put toys and fingers in me.
 
Never have had a strap-on used on me, but I've had my wife use my (yes, my) dildo on me before. She isn't really into it, but she'll help me if I ask. Still feels damn nice.
 
Please feel free to share your experiences here.

Did you ever use a strap-on?

Was ever one used on you?

How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?

Would you do it again?



Has one of you ladies ever had the pleasure to be fucked thorougly with a strap-on by another woman? :)
My wife and I both have been using a strap of for almost a year now.
We ended up buying one on line because of my ED problems from having my prostrate removed over a year ago, and the pills not working for me either.

We started out with just a hand held but I thought it would be more realistic for her with a strap-on.

At first it was just me wearing it to please her, but one night after she had a few drinks in her she strapped it on and did me with it which I ended up loving it to.

I can't get hard or even produce cum anymore but I still get the climax feeling as if I'm cumming so it kinda has brought my sex life back as well.

My wife feels more comfortable with it all now and understands my needs, so its worked out well for the both of us ever since.
 
Please feel free to share your experiences here.

Did you ever use a strap-on?

Was ever one used on you?

How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?

Would you do it again?



Has one of you ladies ever had the pleasure to be fucked thorougly with a strap-on by another woman? :)

Ok, this is super brand new to us and it just happened like this last weekend in fact. I used it on him after he used it on me in the exact same manner. We always try new things together. You can't know what something feels like till you have had it yourself that made sense to both of us. I enjoyed giving it to him the sense of sexy was out of this world for me. He in turn using to myself was very, very enjoyable. How to put it this way it does not get soft, like a man's penis so it is always ready to go and never fails to make me orgasm. So, yes, it was worth every damn dime I spent on it. I would do it again in a heart beat, in fact I have plans for this weekend on his days off coming up! I have yet to have a woman with it, however being bisexual if I ever found a willing lady whom whished to do the honors well, you would never hear me complaining if that is what you wanted to hear! lol.
 
Early in my relationship with my now fiancee, I revealed to her I enjoy getting fucked in the ass. We went to a porn store together and picked out a strapon together. We only use it occasionally as a special event.

It feels so amazing to share my most favorite fantasy and sexual activity with someone I so close too. I feel so blessed to find a dominate woman that lets my sissy side flourish.
 
My husband wanted my ass and I told him, "Only if I can fuck yours." As I recall, he bought a harness and a dildo for it very quickly! LOL.
My husband bought the first one. We have purchased others and toys together. We have a variety of harness style holders and like them all. Our favorite allows us to change the rings, allowing it to accommodate almost any toy of any size. It also allows access to pussy. I like to have my pussy eaten while I am wearing a cock.
 
Back in the day when my wife was P.M. (pre-menopausal), she asked me to take her to a Adult store. We looked through videos and she walked over to the sex toys. On the wall was a 8 inch strap on dildo. Next to it was an assortment of butt plugs, vibrators, and other stuff. She looked at me and said in a clear voice, "Can I buy that strap-on?... I want to use it on you" and every head in the store turned and looked our way. I said, "sure honey, whatever you want." Then as everybody turned back to what they were looking at, she said, "I want the butt plug for you too.... it'll hold your enema in longer" and three people stopped what they were doing and walked out of the store. The clerk just stared at her, and then she topped it off by saying she wanted the 18 inch double dildo so she could see how much I could take. I said "no problem, whatever you want is fine with me"... I spent over a hundred dollars that night for three items that got a ton of use. I still use the 18 incher from time to time....
 
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It's always been a fantasy of mine!! Can't wait to bend him over and fuck him the way he has always fucked me:)
 
Fun for the woman

I enjoy being pegged and it has been a long time.

I recently saw a video where the woman had an orgasm while pegging the guy. That has happened to me and it was hot to watch her orgasm while being pegged. I think we forget how fun and orgasmic it can be for the woman.

In the video the woman was pegging the guy "doggy style" when she started to cum. It was ironic that she pounded the guy harder and faster while holding onto his hips tightly just like when a guy cums in that position. In her case she was trying to get more and more friction across her clit. When her orgasm was in full force she just stiffened up and shook while she was buried deep inside of him. (like when a guy cums emptying his load) It is an amazing feeling because you can feel every vibration of her orgasm through the dildo and into your ass.

ES
 
I enjoy being pegged and it has been a long time.

I recently saw a video where the woman had an orgasm while pegging the guy. That has happened to me and it was hot to watch her orgasm while being pegged. I think we forget how fun and orgasmic it can be for the woman.

In the video the woman was pegging the guy "doggy style" when she started to cum. It was ironic that she pounded the guy harder and faster while holding onto his hips tightly just like when a guy cums in that position. In her case she was trying to get more and more friction across her clit. When her orgasm was in full force she just stiffened up and shook while she was buried deep inside of him. (like when a guy cums emptying his load) It is an amazing feeling because you can feel every vibration of her orgasm through the dildo and into your ass.

ES

WOW, I am horny just by reading your post.
 
I wonder how many men would submit to strapon play if they had in their mind that it did nothing for them but brought their partner lots of pleasure and satisfaction?

ES

Well, you could make the same argument about cunnilingus. It mostly brings pleasure to your partner.

For me, I love seeing my partner Getting really all hot and heavy. Even if my physical pleasure is not at the top of the list. I like submitting to her desire, mentally, it just turns me on.

With that in mind, strap her up, my ass is puckered and ready!:D
 
Back in the day when my wife was P.M. (pre-menopausal), she asked me to take her to a Adult store. We looked through videos and she walked over to the sex toys. On the wall was a 8 inch strap on dildo. Next to it was an assortment of butt plugs, vibrators, and other stuff. She looked at me and said in a clear voice, "Can I buy that strap-on?... I want to use it on you" and every head in the store turned and looked our way. I said, "sure honey, whatever you want." Then as everybody turned back to what they were looking at, she said, "I want the butt plug for you too.... it'll hold your enema in longer" and three people stopped what they were doing and walked out of the store. The clerk just stared at her, and then she topped it off by saying she wanted the 18 inch double dildo so she could see how much I could take. I said "no problem, whatever you want is fine with me"... I spent over a hundred dollars that night for three items that got a ton of use. I still use the 18 incher from time to time....

This is such an awesome story!
 
Back in the day when my wife was P.M. (pre-menopausal), she asked me to take her to a Adult store. We looked through videos and she walked over to the sex toys. On the wall was a 8 inch strap on dildo. Next to it was an assortment of butt plugs, vibrators, and other stuff. She looked at me and said in a clear voice, "Can I buy that strap-on?... I want to use it on you" and every head in the store turned and looked our way. I said, "sure honey, whatever you want." Then as everybody turned back to what they were looking at, she said, "I want the butt plug for you too.... it'll hold your enema in longer" and three people stopped what they were doing and walked out of the store. The clerk just stared at her, and then she topped it off by saying she wanted the 18 inch double dildo so she could see how much I could take. I said "no problem, whatever you want is fine with me"... I spent over a hundred dollars that night for three items that got a ton of use. I still use the 18 incher from time to time....

did you say 18inches?

WOW, that must have taken a shitload of practice!
 
I have enjoyed anal stimulation since I learned that it felt good to play with my penis. Although I have never had anyone to share it with except my second wife, and her not much. She didn't like doing it to me and doing it to her was out of the question. I resorted to self pleasuring my self after my divorce. I had no idea of where to look for someone of like interests as mine. My current wife , (I'm her 4th husband) and I have been together 23 years and have a dry toast sex life. After the first year, which was straight vanilla, it turned into a " wham, bam, hurry up Sam, you've got to get up early for work ", or a ," not tonight, I have a headache " type of affair. I wish I could have enjoyed anal with someone (receiving and giving) while I had the chance.
There used to be a TV commercial that said "try it you"all like it". Believe it.
 
Well, you could make the same argument about cunnilingus. It mostly brings pleasure to your partner.

For me, I love seeing my partner Getting really all hot and heavy. Even if my physical pleasure is not at the top of the list. I like submitting to her desire, mentally, it just turns me on.

With that in mind, strap her up, my ass is puckered and ready!:D

Well said. There are times when I am giving my gf cunnilingus and she is enjoying herself and I find myself in an uncomfortable position. Of course I don't stop because it is a big turn on for me to bring her pleasure. She has a nice orgasm and I have a sore neck for a while, but well worth it.

Some women see Strap-on play or pegging as a male experience, meaning it does nothing for them...they just do it for the man. Part of this MAY be how we--as guys--present it to our partners. However it is presented, if it is seen as an experience pleasurable to men only, I can understand why some women are not into it. All of my great experiences with pegging have been with women who enjoy pegging and see the experience as something pleasurable to the woman as well as the man.

ES
 
I have to chime in here and say as a lady if I’m approached correctly, I absolutely love strap-on play. Giving. It’s very sexy if done right .
 
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