Interested in teaching me the basics?

I have never done the BDSM thing, but lately I have been insterested in the types of possiblities that this may open up in my rather dull sex life. I would love for someone to give me their personal take and stories/experiences. I'm a 23 year old graduate student, very shy, nerdy type, but very willing. I'm interested in forming a deeply intimate and trusting relationship with someone like minded.

BDSM Talk & Cafe are full of information and experiences; if you have specific questions, I'd suggest starting your own threads and see where things go. There isn't really any "one true way" do do/experience kink (or BDSM), and the kind soul offering to "privately tutor" you on the subject of kink... Well, lets just satire easy to develop a conflict of interest when the subject turns to sex.

The BDSM Library has lots of archived topics, and most of the forum regulars are happy to offer their perspective on things. Welcome to the forum!

I have some BDSM stories posted as well if you are interested in reading them. there is a link to my author page in my profile