'Mornin from Sunny Arizona

Ladybugsjoy said:

Hello everyone. I'm female (woo!), 28yo, size 18, white.. all that fun stuff. Currently working on getting divorced and actually enjoying the idea of getting out there dating again, single mom and all ;-) I'm shocked that I'm not scared like most people I know and I'm looking to *at least* having some fun chatting until I can technically legally start dating again. Thank god divorces here only take about 3 months!! Man I've missed getting some real attention from a guy other than when it's just 'convenient'. This girl needs to get some! Hehe

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newinmke said:

Not to bring my bias into this - but if dating is what you want to do, I think you need to go out and date! Instead of looking for "fun" here -- I know it is paradoxical coming from a person who is posting here, but to me this is non-serious stuff. If you are serious about finding a partner, just do it, instead of relying on fleeting fun. Else, you will be addicted to this as a fall-back option, and will be less interested in making relationships work, especially given your single mother status. Just my two cents...

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Ladybugsjoy said:

I've had everything be serious about relationships for the last 7.5 years. It would be nice to have some fun and not be serious. Not be stressed about trying to make a relationship work.. hence why the divorce, it's been 7 years of making a relationship work and it failing because of his complete lack of effort. I'd just like some fun for once. I'm happier now and stress free from all that effort and drama and now even my child is happier that I'm not as stressed. Seems silly, but it really is just nice to be free and to be who I want however I want as long as I'm not hurting anyone then I'm good.

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Ladybugsjoy said:

I've had everything be serious about relationships for the last 7.5 years. It would be nice to have some fun and not be serious. Not be stressed about trying to make a relationship work.. hence why the divorce, it's been 7 years of making a relationship work and it failing because of his complete lack of effort. I'd just like some fun for once. I'm happier now and stress free from all that effort and drama and now even my child is happier that I'm not as stressed. Seems silly, but it really is just nice to be free and to be who I want however I want as long as I'm not hurting anyone then I'm good.

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cubbies4vrs said:

Hi there. Congrats on making yourself happy i know that took guts to do what you have done.Pm me if you want chat ....

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Ladybugsjoy said:

Hello everyone. I'm female (woo!), 28yo, size 18, white.. all that fun stuff. Currently working on getting divorced and actually enjoying the idea of getting out there dating again, single mom and all ;-) I'm shocked that I'm not scared like most people I know and I'm looking to *at least* having some fun chatting until I can technically legally start dating again. Thank god divorces here only take about 3 months!! Man I've missed getting some real attention from a guy other than when it's just 'convenient'. This girl needs to get some! Hehe

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