Hypoxia
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I have a problem. I am tired of living.
I have been a fuckup most of my life, yet I find myself in a nicely comfortable situation. My partner loves me madly, even though I've been a shit for years. We're doing very well now, with lots of good sex (except when I cause unwanted pain). My partner supports me fully. I have grandkids who love me, a daughter who tolerates me, an incredible son-in-law, other family I'm on good terms with, etc. Our liviing situation is comfy but not rich. My life sits on a silver-plated platter.
I also hurt. Much pain, not all treatable with meds. I know that my future includes blindness, deafness, dementia, and immobility. My meds may prevent strokes. I sure hope so; I'm much more willing to die than to be a vegetable.
What don't I have? Friends. Hope. Lack of pain. Anyone I can talk to about my feelings. (Can't tell my partner without provoking a serious reaction. Can't tell anyone else because it won't stay confidential.)
I don't think I'm asking for help here. I guess I'm just venting, or processing. Or maybe I'm asking: What do you do when you don't care about living?
I have been a fuckup most of my life, yet I find myself in a nicely comfortable situation. My partner loves me madly, even though I've been a shit for years. We're doing very well now, with lots of good sex (except when I cause unwanted pain). My partner supports me fully. I have grandkids who love me, a daughter who tolerates me, an incredible son-in-law, other family I'm on good terms with, etc. Our liviing situation is comfy but not rich. My life sits on a silver-plated platter.
I also hurt. Much pain, not all treatable with meds. I know that my future includes blindness, deafness, dementia, and immobility. My meds may prevent strokes. I sure hope so; I'm much more willing to die than to be a vegetable.
What don't I have? Friends. Hope. Lack of pain. Anyone I can talk to about my feelings. (Can't tell my partner without provoking a serious reaction. Can't tell anyone else because it won't stay confidential.)
I don't think I'm asking for help here. I guess I'm just venting, or processing. Or maybe I'm asking: What do you do when you don't care about living?
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