Mindfondler
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I posted the following thoughts in the "Sensual Domination" group on Fetlife (then *tumbleweeds*!). I wonder whether they might be a stimulus for discussion here. Let's try!
For me, sensual domination is about getting in complete synchronisation with my sub through subtle touches and whispered words, to the point where her body responses are entirely under my control — and harmoniously so. It might sound a bit "new agey", but it feels like a flow of positive energy from me to her which we then revel in sharing.
To my initial surprise, I've caused my partner to enter a blissful subspace just through my soft caresses, teasing stimulation and soothing words. It was an entirely different entry point to endorphin-driven impact play (which we've also done together), but the end-result was much the same and just as long-lasting.
I love having this type of soft control! Heavy impact play doesn't float my boat, so I'm glad that I've been able to find an alternative that can be just as effective.
Does anyone else share my viewpoint?
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For me, sensual domination is about getting in complete synchronisation with my sub through subtle touches and whispered words, to the point where her body responses are entirely under my control — and harmoniously so. It might sound a bit "new agey", but it feels like a flow of positive energy from me to her which we then revel in sharing.
To my initial surprise, I've caused my partner to enter a blissful subspace just through my soft caresses, teasing stimulation and soothing words. It was an entirely different entry point to endorphin-driven impact play (which we've also done together), but the end-result was much the same and just as long-lasting.
I love having this type of soft control! Heavy impact play doesn't float my boat, so I'm glad that I've been able to find an alternative that can be just as effective.
Does anyone else share my viewpoint?
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