amy1969
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First of all, I would like to apologise for ranting, I rarely do this online because I do get carried away.
NOW, you are saying I attacked someone on this thread? Who did I attack? I didn't name a specific person, all I said is most of the women seem to think the worse thing that happens on this entire site is that men pose as women. Is this a surprise? It is after all a porn site and most men are easy to spot IMHO.
I reacted to the initial post because I felt I was commenting on a video with another poster and then the next message comments there "seem to be a lot of men on here." Now I am probably being paranoid but I just wanted to reply by saying well what I said, that basically but didn't want a load of "me think thou dost protest too much" replies so I added other things that bothered me about lit in general.
This is a new id I'm using and I wasn't always the most prolific posters before either but you see as a new poster it's often hard to get started. One tries to join in but no one talks to you and if it's because you are unfairly judged for being a randy old pervert or a greasy, teanager regularly shaking hands with "Governor of love" before you've even started, it's not really fair. I mean maybe I'm dumb, is this how it works? I have to make as many comments as possible be they banal, horny, friendly or sympathetic until after a few hundred posts you are accepted?
I also don't want to hound anyone out, I was trying, albeit unsuccessfully, to turn the tables. It was suggested that threads should be locked until some people are accepted as female and I was trying to say how would some of the women on here feel if the threads for married women were locked because in all honesty the problems I've had on this site have been from other women, not men yet as soon as a man appears on a married women thread, some women who are actually not the target audience for that thread, leap on him. I just don't see that as fair but no one ever says anything. In all honesty, I'm guilty of locking the door after the horse has bolted because I should have probably should have said something on that particular thread but at that point I was trying to be polite and nice to everyone.
So apologies for upsetting anyone and I'll go back to being ignored
]My last posting on this thread about this subject: as a final response..
Well, I for one do feel you bashed / attacked me.
Your references seemed very clear to me.
I did post on the "Married woman... " thread".
here are the actual 2 posts , to set the record correctly:
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=37657085&postcount=797
and the next post:
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=37657192&postcount=799
And, yes, I did post asking about a suggestion about a 'closed' area.. perhaps silly in the cyber-world, but in an attempt to be able to comfortably communicate and express things with strictly other women as you referenced in your post about.
I posted here in support of another earlier comment about men posing as women ( which has happened from time to time... or more) and this was from what I felt and also from many ,many actual experiences ( incl a 'voice verify) that proved certain posters were in fact male and that in fact, it was a man pretending like crazy to be a woman and then tried to sweet talk me as if it were all a joke- and I got totally fooled .. my naivete.. but also made me a sick of why do I have to go through something like this on a place like LIT on a thread that is pretty clearly labeled. And this is after many many many PM's and a plan to actually meet.
Reading, perusing for anyone is obviously okay. Even making comments provided one identifies themselves as another gender that a particular thread is labeled and obviously not for them is okay as well --and a few men have done that here and I respect them for that as long as comments are civil.
But pretending is another matter at least as far as I am concerned.
Maybe pride or just generally trying to be honest.
Obviously you have your reasons for posting what you have here and have certain seemingly 'supporters' as well.
Sorry if you had to 'change' names from being on LIT previously-( as you stated) -would think that might have made you a bit more sensitive to how some of us feel about certain posts or patterns...of people pretending...
Sorry as well , about as you mentioned in one post about people not responding to you-- I never thought that I had any expectation for anyone to ever respond to me on anything- yet I have met a lot of very fun and interesting, sexy and erotic woman here.. guess that is just personal taste for each person.
I do apologize to many of the wonderful ladies I have met and posted with and PM'd with here for quite a while on this thread.. There have been some memorable times and some very very sweet and erotic exchanges... I apologize for taking this space to express my honest opinions, trying to be respectful and open and also to exercise my option of " I don't need this sh__t"
With that, I won't be back to this thread for awhile ( if ever).
But I sincerely hope that I will still run into and communicate the many many incredible women I have met here and have had such wonderful , erotic and honest exchanges and PM's with on the many many other threads within LIT as I will still try to be around and know / hope we can find comfortable places to 'do our thing' and enjoy each others company, stories, feelings and erotic encounters. I thank you for all the ones so far and look forward to more!
Ja Ne,
Amy
