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I do not know the exact percentages, but it seems that there are many more male subs seeking dommes than there are dommes looking for male subs. I think also that there are for more male doms seeking female subs than there are female subs available. Yet I would roughly estimate that ninety percent of the BDSM stories are about males dominating females.

This suggests a lot of wishful thinking and not much real satisfaction. More femdom and less Mdom, please.

leomasoch said:

More femdom and less Mdom, please.

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That's because Dommes (women) often seek a relationship, not a submissive. They are not interested in a plaything in whom submissiveness is the main defining quality.
Also, any woman seeking any man will get tons of Horny Internet Nerds crowding her like flies. People who are not interested in her at all - only her body.

Those are two main reasons you won't see a lot of Dommes looking for subs.

leo, walk the walk and write a story you want to read. Maybe you will inspire others.

Farawyn said:

leo, walk the walk and write a story you want to read.

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Actually he did. Multiple.

so, are we sharing femdom stories here? is that what we're doing?

Here are mine:
https://www.literotica.com/s/the-whores-whore-1
https://www.literotica.com/s/raven-2003
https://www.literotica.com/s/the-dive

... and here's a few by other authors I've enjoyed:
https://www.literotica.com/s/playing-power-games
https://www.literotica.com/s/submission-an-initiation
https://www.literotica.com/s/drill-sergeant

I'm pretty sure there are more males than females here in general, so it stands to reason that this ratio would be somewhat similar among BDSM enthusiasts.

Without wanting to start a debate over patriarchy & feminism etc, I'd also point out that men probably don't need to seek submissive women online since they already enjoy a position of dominance. Perhaps more importantly though, is the sad fact that women are subjected to all manner of harassment & abuse at home, at work, and online. If women are subjected to sexual harassment (and worse) on social media in general, how much worse do you imagine it would be on a forum dedicated specifically to erotica & sexuality? Small wonder that the male to female ratio is what is.