CocksuckingSub81
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- Jan 1, 2015
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Well, going through a break-up, and as usual, I find myself thinking self-destructive thoughts and wanting to do self-destructive things. Some examples: random hook-ups, eat too much, drink too much…put myself in dangerous situations. I don't really know if I have these thoughts and urges because I feel I need to be punished for failing, or if the rejection makes me feel worthless and like I should be treated as such.
I really don't mean this as a "pity party." I just want to find some insight to my feelings so I can try to change or redirect them. Yes I realize I have self-esteem issues. THIS IS NOT AN INVITATION TO BASH ME - I do a good enough job of that on my own. I just thought other people might want to share their experiences.
Does anyone else react similarly, or how to you deal with/react to rejection? Do you think your response to rejection is a positive coping mechanism or harmful? I am submissive, which is why I am posting in this forum, and I'm wondering if it is a submissive mindset or totally unrelated?
I really don't mean this as a "pity party." I just want to find some insight to my feelings so I can try to change or redirect them. Yes I realize I have self-esteem issues. THIS IS NOT AN INVITATION TO BASH ME - I do a good enough job of that on my own. I just thought other people might want to share their experiences.
Does anyone else react similarly, or how to you deal with/react to rejection? Do you think your response to rejection is a positive coping mechanism or harmful? I am submissive, which is why I am posting in this forum, and I'm wondering if it is a submissive mindset or totally unrelated?