I'll pm you a couple of sites that I think will take it.
I was told by a hard core non con fan that the victim liking it is a boner killer. It does fly in the face of what non con really is.
What the sight really seems to want is reluctance, forced at first, then loving it. Why they have a non consent category goes back to the days of their long defunct sister site and they moved those stories here.
They should drop it and go with just a reluctance category to avoid the confusion and people posting and getting full non con rejected, but...its never going to happen. It would make sense and stop a lot of questions and explanations and arguing about it.