simplegirl
Really Really Experienced
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- Apr 8, 2007
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Let's just say for arguments that your fella, lets call him Mr Nuts for lack of a name, genuinely wanted to detail your car? (Actually did he do a good job?) It strikes me in all my ignorance, that tracking devices are just the tip of the proverbial iceberg. Do you love him? Trust him? Do you want to be with him? Does he make you happy? These are more the sort of questions I would be interested to learn the answers too. Still, I am just a lowly giraffe, what do I know?
I understand what you're saying, but in her original post she states that he was constantly questioning where she was at all times to detailing her car once and once only when the questions abruptly stopped. Why the sudden need to stop questioning her whereabouts? If he was indeed looking to keep her car looking good, wouldn't he detail it on a regular basis?
Regardless, it sounds like a toxic relationship, if you even believe he's capable of going to this step. Even if he didn't do it, do you want to stay in a relationship where he's that possessive and controlling? And if he is that possessive and controlling, could he be violent?