SecretSubM88
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Dec 29, 2016
- Posts
- 462
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'State of mind' - yes. I feel like a broken record, but I don't look like any of those women in the FemDom Tumblr pics, and I'm sure as fuck not about to change my personal style for someone else's idea of what a Domme ought to look like. Please.
My closet is filled with maxi dresses, long skirts, lacy tanks, quirky tees, and pretty little blouses. And sandals. No mini skirts, no leather corsets, no thigh-high boots. And do you want to know what I wear in the bedroom? Nothing. That's right, I like to be naked when I'm having sex. Which isn't to say that I'd be unwilling to dress up for a partner, only that my wardrobe is a reflection of my taste in clothing, not my kink, and i don't need to wear black anything to dominate a man.
In fact, I kind of like the juxtaposition of bossing someone around while not 'looking the part.'
I like this, intamicy in any for is ultimately about being yourself. It is a shame that rhis is not more accepted