mishkin
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Feb 2, 2002
- Posts
- 259
Hi. I've been into LitErot for a few months but I'm pretty new to this thread and to the BDSM scene. I'm really impressed by the experience on line here and by people's sensitivity and the way they can express themselves. I find it moving - so much that for so long must have been really hard to learn about now so available to us all - and those of you who monitor it are doing a great job.
I could be switch but am chiefly dom, though a learning dom. I read somewhere here that the sub chooses the dom but I think it works the other way round too - what I go for in a sub is intensity, need - which could be any mixture of the masochistic, submissive, and sexual, but I'm not attracted by the tepid or the trivial. I also value the experience as essentially caring and nurturing, odd though that may sound in the context of physically hurting someone. Like most people here I'm interested in skin to skin and use the web for exploration and finding out about people - I don't want to live entirely in a fantasy world, much as I value fantasy as a way of being more imaginative about what I or others want.
I'm older than most people here and have been various things in my time - chiefly businessman and writer. Live in London and certainly interested in anyone around who might want to share things about all this.
I could be switch but am chiefly dom, though a learning dom. I read somewhere here that the sub chooses the dom but I think it works the other way round too - what I go for in a sub is intensity, need - which could be any mixture of the masochistic, submissive, and sexual, but I'm not attracted by the tepid or the trivial. I also value the experience as essentially caring and nurturing, odd though that may sound in the context of physically hurting someone. Like most people here I'm interested in skin to skin and use the web for exploration and finding out about people - I don't want to live entirely in a fantasy world, much as I value fantasy as a way of being more imaginative about what I or others want.
I'm older than most people here and have been various things in my time - chiefly businessman and writer. Live in London and certainly interested in anyone around who might want to share things about all this.