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It's time for a new beginning.

What was, is no longer as it was.

What will be, remains to be seen in the future

I go forward with a positive attitude and hope!

...to be continued
 
ecstaticsub said:
It's time for a new beginning.

What was, is no longer as it was.

What will be, remains to be seen in the future

I go forward with a positive attitude and hope!

...to be continued
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I remember being reminded, in the middle of a change in our relationship, that it had always been changing, and that realization helped me see the latest change for what it was and cope better.

Change is sometimes difficult, but not always bad. A positive attitude and hope will certainly help.
 
the captians wench said:
*snuggles*
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Thanks sweetie! Snuggles are always more then welcome.

wicked woman said:
I remember being reminded, in the middle of a change in our relationship, that it had always been changing, and that realization helped me see the latest change for what it was and cope better.

Change is sometimes difficult, but not always bad. A positive attitude and hope will certainly help.
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That is a very good way of looking at the situation. Things have changed. But the foundation has stayed the same. I am still his owned submissive. He still loves me. I still love him.

There have been little changes all along. This is a bigger change but it can be a very good change if I can just stay calm, take down my walls, focus on the positives of which there are many.
 
A big hello to everyone here.

I just wanted to post something here and say how hard it can be when you are so far away from someone you feel so connected to.

I am a hypnotist in the UK. My sub is in the US and we have never actually met face to face. It seems such a strange thing when I write it out, and yet our relationship has evolved very naturally from meeting for the first time in a hypnosis chatroom to where we are now.

I think I am luckier than some because I know she has no thoughts of disobedience, and has no desire to look elsewhere....these are the advantages of hypnosis I suppose. However, I understand what others have put here about contact only being as good as your internet connection allows. It can be frustrating and at times worrying. Losing your internet connection when the person on the other end of the line is hypnotised can be very alarming.

I'm glad to find this forum because for a while I had thought our relationship very strange and perhaps not real. It is good to know that long distance serious sub/Dom relationships exist and also that they don't always remain so. I suppose the harder the road, the more rewarding it is when you reach your destination.
 
Mesmerist said:
A big hello to everyone here.

I just wanted to post something here and say how hard it can be when you are so far away from someone you feel so connected to.

I am a hypnotist in the UK. My sub is in the US and we have never actually met face to face. It seems such a strange thing when I write it out, and yet our relationship has evolved very naturally from meeting for the first time in a hypnosis chatroom to where we are now.

I think I am luckier than some because I know she has no thoughts of disobedience, and has no desire to look elsewhere....these are the advantages of hypnosis I suppose. However, I understand what others have put here about contact only being as good as your internet connection allows. It can be frustrating and at times worrying. Losing your internet connection when the person on the other end of the line is hypnotised can be very alarming.

I'm glad to find this forum because for a while I had thought our relationship very strange and perhaps not real. It is good to know that long distance serious sub/Dom relationships exist and also that they don't always remain so. I suppose the harder the road, the more rewarding it is when you reach your destination.
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Welcome!!
 
Just when it seems everything is calm and on the way to a very good place...a shitstorm occurs and the waves may drown me this time :(
 
ecstaticsub said:
Just when it seems everything is calm and on the way to a very good place...a shitstorm occurs and the waves may drown me this time :(
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*huggles* here's hoping for the best, dear. :kiss:

I'm having a very hard time this week. Just finished my full field inspection on Friday (which ended up to be a 13.5 hour day). I thought it went well, but my GM is less than pleased to say the least about the scores. It's been some long days (35 hours in 3 days) with no sort of positive feedback for my hard work (not that I really expected any). And because of my long hours this week and this month even I haven't had much time at all with Jounar. (thank God for Androids and G-talk or we would have never spoken this month!)

It's been such a bad week that when we finally did get play time tonight, Jounar went very easy on me because my emotions are so frayed I cried watching amiture porn today!
 
the captians wench said:
*huggles* here's hoping for the best, dear. :kiss:

I'm having a very hard time this week. Just finished my full field inspection on Friday (which ended up to be a 13.5 hour day). I thought it went well, but my GM is less than pleased to say the least about the scores. It's been some long days (35 hours in 3 days) with no sort of positive feedback for my hard work (not that I really expected any). And because of my long hours this week and this month even I haven't had much time at all with Jounar. (thank God for Androids and G-talk or we would have never spoken this month!)

It's been such a bad week that when we finally did get play time tonight, Jounar went very easy on me because my emotions are so frayed I cried watching amiture porn today!
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Huggies back at ya, sweetie. Waves are still crashing over me, but i'm still standing.

I sincerely hope things are better for you this coming week.


xoxoxo
 
I picked up my package from the post office today. My Christmas gifts from Jounar.

It's usually pretty obvious why he picks out what he does. This year it was a Celtic Knot work necklace and earring set ( I love knot work, and this is made by an Irish company, which is why he picked that) a little lepruchian magnet (reminded me of searching for the tackiest gift I could find for my sister in law while I was there {which this does not beat finding a shot glass with a lepruchain sitting in it, which we found at St Patrick's Cathedrial[irony lost on my sister in law]} I'm sure that's where his mind was too), a scarf that I think might have been from his mom but looks like stuff I've sent her, gemstones (reminded me of walking the beach picking up pebbles to take home with me) all of which have some sort of "calming" meaning behind them (he's always been the one to keep me grounded), even the box looks like me, but the last thing I was a bit stumped by.

There was a stuffed bunny in the package as well. Looks a bit old, and a bit loved as some fur is missing from her nose (she's wearing a dress, so I assume it's a her). I was a bit puzzled by this, and to some extent still am, but the last couple of hours I have been sitting, watching the UK Being Human and snuggled with this bunny. I haven't felt this at peace in some time. It smells like his house, a musty linger of his cigs (he's smoking more than last year I can tell by the smell). Almost like getting a hug from him. Almost as good as when I brought back one of his shirts.

I'm really hoping my boss was right about this bonus. If she was, I'll have enough to cover a flight and hotel and a bit of spending money from this one bonus check. And an extra check coming up for more spending money. Though I'd be happy to spend the entire time in our room living off of pb&j.
 
the captians wench said:
I'm really hoping my boss was right about this bonus. If she was, I'll have enough to cover a flight and hotel and a bit of spending money from this one bonus check. And an extra check coming up for more spending money. Though I'd be happy to spend the entire time in our room living off of pb&j.
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I'm so hoping for you about your bonus. You two certainly deserve some time together. *fingers crossed*
 
the captians wench said:
I picked up my package from the post office today. My Christmas gifts from Jounar.

It's usually pretty obvious why he picks out what he does. This year it was a Celtic Knot work necklace and earring set ( I love knot work, and this is made by an Irish company, which is why he picked that) a little lepruchian magnet (reminded me of searching for the tackiest gift I could find for my sister in law while I was there {which this does not beat finding a shot glass with a lepruchain sitting in it, which we found at St Patrick's Cathedrial[irony lost on my sister in law]} I'm sure that's where his mind was too), a scarf that I think might have been from his mom but looks like stuff I've sent her, gemstones (reminded me of walking the beach picking up pebbles to take home with me) all of which have some sort of "calming" meaning behind them (he's always been the one to keep me grounded), even the box looks like me, but the last thing I was a bit stumped by.

There was a stuffed bunny in the package as well. Looks a bit old, and a bit loved as some fur is missing from her nose (she's wearing a dress, so I assume it's a her). I was a bit puzzled by this, and to some extent still am, but the last couple of hours I have been sitting, watching the UK Being Human and snuggled with this bunny. I haven't felt this at peace in some time. It smells like his house, a musty linger of his cigs (he's smoking more than last year I can tell by the smell). Almost like getting a hug from him. Almost as good as when I brought back one of his shirts.

I'm really hoping my boss was right about this bonus. If she was, I'll have enough to cover a flight and hotel and a bit of spending money from this one bonus check. And an extra check coming up for more spending money. Though I'd be happy to spend the entire time in our room living off of pb&j.
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The bunny sounds like the perfect gift. :) I so hope everything works out for you. You are way overdue for a visit.
 
Tiny update on me--Things are good! I think the roller coaster is finally in coast mode.
 
the captians wench said:
I picked up my package from the post office today. My Christmas gifts from Jounar.

It's usually pretty obvious why he picks out what he does. This year it was a Celtic Knot work necklace and earring set ( I love knot work, and this is made by an Irish company, which is why he picked that) a little lepruchian magnet (reminded me of searching for the tackiest gift I could find for my sister in law while I was there {which this does not beat finding a shot glass with a lepruchain sitting in it, which we found at St Patrick's Cathedrial[irony lost on my sister in law]} I'm sure that's where his mind was too), a scarf that I think might have been from his mom but looks like stuff I've sent her, gemstones (reminded me of walking the beach picking up pebbles to take home with me) all of which have some sort of "calming" meaning behind them (he's always been the one to keep me grounded), even the box looks like me, but the last thing I was a bit stumped by.

There was a stuffed bunny in the package as well. Looks a bit old, and a bit loved as some fur is missing from her nose (she's wearing a dress, so I assume it's a her). I was a bit puzzled by this, and to some extent still am, but the last couple of hours I have been sitting, watching the UK Being Human and snuggled with this bunny. I haven't felt this at peace in some time. It smells like his house, a musty linger of his cigs (he's smoking more than last year I can tell by the smell). Almost like getting a hug from him. Almost as good as when I brought back one of his shirts.

I'm really hoping my boss was right about this bonus. If she was, I'll have enough to cover a flight and hotel and a bit of spending money from this one bonus check. And an extra check coming up for more spending money. Though I'd be happy to spend the entire time in our room living off of pb&j.
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Oh sugar . I hope you get togeather soon. All my fingers are crossed for you!
Our next meeting is in a meer 6 weeks time!!!
Soooooooooooooooo excited!
 
wicked woman said:
I'm so hoping for you about your bonus. You two certainly deserve some time together. *fingers crossed*
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ecstaticsub said:
The bunny sounds like the perfect gift. :) I so hope everything works out for you. You are way overdue for a visit.
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kimuk said:
Oh sugar . I hope you get togeather soon. All my fingers are crossed for you!
Our next meeting is in a meer 6 weeks time!!!
Soooooooooooooooo excited!
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Thanks ladies. :)

Well I found out yesterday that the store did indeed double bonus, however because they didn't officially transfer me until Dec 1, I didn't get mine. So I sent an email off to my supervisor and her boss explaining the situation and that I did indeed work at this store the entire 4th quarter so deserve the bonus. Waiting now for a responce....of course this was just before I sent off another email explaining how pissed off I am that they mishandled my possible move.

If I haven't heard anything by tomorrow, I'm sending another email, this time copying HR.
 
the captians wench said:
Thanks ladies. :)

Well I found out yesterday that the store did indeed double bonus, however because they didn't officially transfer me until Dec 1, I didn't get mine. So I sent an email off to my supervisor and her boss explaining the situation and that I did indeed work at this store the entire 4th quarter so deserve the bonus. Waiting now for a responce....of course this was just before I sent off another email explaining how pissed off I am that they mishandled my possible move.

If I haven't heard anything by tomorrow, I'm sending another email, this time copying HR.
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You go girl..fight for what is rightfully yours!
 
Yay for everyone who's having good things happening ^_^ hugs for those who aren't :( <hugs>

It's almost march. Which means it's almost April. Which means it's almost time for my boy to come visit me ^_^. I'm so glad I moved in with more laid back roommates >:]
 
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