'Milking' a mans cock - is this for real?

I've not read every post here - it's a long thread. Maybe I'm barking up the wrong tree, but I'll try and explain. If "milking" is synonymous with prostate massage then I'm not talking about "milking," but I just trying to say that you can ejaculate and produce cum without the orgasm. It happens to me. Usually only if I'm really turned on and have been erect for a long time then if I stop before climax repetitively (edging) I'll eventually produce a load of cum without any of the shuddering orgasmic bliss that usually accompanies the ejaculation. Afterwards I'm still as turned on as before (if not more so) and I've still not climaxed, I'm just a little messier.

I hope I've cleared that up. Sorry if my comments were off-topic. But thanks for letting me describe what is usually a very intense experience ;)
Love it!

1. That is called a "ruined orgasm". The woman jacks you off until you are ready to cum and then stops as you orgasm. You cum but no actual orgasm like you mentioned above. It works best if she edges you a while first--- again similar to what you mentioned.

For some, that is not "Milking" because they define Milking as not touching or stimulating the dick to get a load of cum. Others define Milking as forcing cum out of a man's cock with no restrictions on how it is done, the only caveat is that it is forced out without the consent of the man. So it depends on your Milking definition.

2. Regarding Prostate stimulation without the bum, it is possible. The area between your balls and anus is called the Perineum. If you massage that area correctly, usually two fingers pressed firmly in a circular motion, you will stimulate the prostate from the outside by pushing on the flesh next to it. Some women do it to their partners while they are on top in the Cowgirl position. They just reach under his balls and press while riding him, or it can be done easily during a BJ.

ES
 
2. Regarding Prostate stimulation without the bum, it is possible. The area between your balls and anus is called the Perineum. If you massage that area correctly, usually two fingers pressed firmly in a circular motion, you will stimulate the prostate from the outside by pushing on the flesh next to it. Some women do it to their partners while they are on top in the Cowgirl position. They just reach under his balls and press while riding him, or it can be done easily during a BJ. ES

Possible but pressing on the outside is a little like pressing on a girls lower abdomen right above the pubic bone and expecting the same reaction with / on the G-SPOT as a finger or thumb massaging it directly through the vaginal wall. You may get a reaction but form my research expect maybe a 20% reaction compared to "the REAL THANG." IMHO part of the thrill for BOTH of you is the penetration - normally reserved JUST for her but now you can share.

Get a pair of good rubber gloves if the thought of stickin a finger up yo butt turns her off other wise just make sure she washes her hand(s) after.
 
Possible but pressing on the outside is a little like pressing on a girls lower abdomen right above the pubic bone and expecting the same reaction with / on the G-SPOT as a finger or thumb massaging it directly through the vaginal wall. You may get a reaction but form my research expect maybe a 20% reaction compared to "the REAL THANG." IMHO part of the thrill for BOTH of you is the penetration - normally reserved JUST for her but now you can share.

Get a pair of good rubber gloves if the thought of stickin a finger up yo butt turns her off other wise just make sure she washes her hand(s) after.

I have had several prostate orgasms with fingers, dildos, and strapons so I do know what it feels like. Check out some of my posts in other threads.

I do agree Perineum massage is not the same as direct stimulation. However, I am a Hedonist so I tried it years ago because I read about it in Cosmo and they said it would feel good. I am sure from your post IF you have actually tried it. I have and it feels great! Just a light massage of the Perineum area feels great to me, when she actually pushes with two fingers causing the prostate to be involved it feels even better. And I get the same feeling of it being massaged, fluid leaks out, etc.

I brought it up because I think it is a great place to start for those interested in prostate play but don't want anal penetration. There are many good links and sites discussing it. I would be surprised IF I am the only one who has really enjoyed it.

ES
 
I wish I had all day to read through this thread. Interesting, interesting, interesting -- especially the various personal experiences and reactions.
 
I would be surprised IF I am the only one who has really enjoyed it.

ES

Seriously??

Over 1,000 replies just in this forum. Other than the standard morons posting some crap about it being GAY ... I would be surprised if any couple who have tried this with an open mind DIDN'T ENJOY THIS.
 
Seriously??

Over 1,000 replies just in this forum. Other than the standard morons posting some crap about it being GAY ... I would be surprised if any couple who have tried this with an open mind DIDN'T ENJOY THIS.

Exactly!

So have you tried the Perineum massage?

ES
 
yep...........its for real......its an odd sensation........cumming.........but you dont really "feel" the orgasm
so you can keep going and going

It’s like a woman squirting....I can squirt what seems like forever...and then let go over that edge when I want to. As for milking a guys cock...omg so hot. Love having him on that edge...watching cum ooze from his cock...licking it up...teasing him...so much fun that is like the gift that keeps on giving 😈
 
It’s like a woman squirting....I can squirt what seems like forever...and then let go over that edge when I want to. As for milking a guys cock...omg so hot. Love having him on that edge...watching cum ooze from his cock...licking it up...teasing him...so much fun that is like the gift that keeps on giving 😈

Damn, I would so love to do this!
 
Yes, it is for real.

We are a mid 60's couple who live the life style.
The woman, in this case decides when the man is going to cum and how hard.
She can either tease it out of me through countless edgings or pull it out in one or more body shaking orgasms.
Those edgings are designed to let her control the flow.
My nympho simply loves to watch me squirm and listen to me beg.
I never know how much and for how long she is going to work me over.
Pleasure is the name of the game and exhaustive torture is how it is played.:D
Says the predator and her captive.
 
It’s like a woman squirting....I can squirt what seems like forever...and then let go over that edge when I want to. As for milking a guys cock...omg so hot. Love having him on that edge...watching cum ooze from his cock...licking it up...teasing him...so much fun that is like the gift that keeps on giving 😈

God......where have you been all my life........Damn
 
A Bump To Keep The Try This Thread Close &

I just want to wish the faithful a VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR. BE WELL. STAY SAFE.

& LONG LIVE THE RESEARCH
 
I just posted this in my TRY THIS thread. I'm wondering if anybody has any experience with this. Is it LIKE the "ANEROS" vibrator for the PROSTATE?? Would this work as well??

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Have any of you tried this infernal machine? It appears to be G-SPOT CENTRIC so as far as this researcher goes that's a GUUD THANG!!!

Feed back would be great. I LOVE the feel of my thumb inserted and feeling the waves of G-GASMS as they grasp, tug and ripple through her. You know EXACTLY when to begin again and unless you're doing a bit of an S&M scene you also know when to back off and give her time to breathe / recover before continuing or if it's time for hugs and one last long slow intense tongue induced O.

May the RESEARCH continue!!


https://www.lovense.com/bluetooth-remote-control-vibrator
 
*BUMP* cuz it's kinda quiet in here these days

and people are still asking me where this and the G-SPOT thread has gone ... so I give them BOTH a *BUMP* to keep them together.
 
It occurs to me, a woman who is really accomplished at this could make a pretty good living at it. Massage therapy, yanno?:D
 
It occurs to me, a woman who is really accomplished at this could make a pretty good living at it. Massage therapy, yanno?:D



I'm sure some do. Ditto anybody capable of administering 20 to 30 massive G-Gasms to a paying customer using the TRY THIS technique or any of its many variations.
 
Strap On

When I fuck my hubbies ass, with my strap on his cock leaks cum, it is cum I've tasted it. if I tug it it leaks out more doesn't spit like when he cums, I've asked him he says its different and his balls feel completely empty.
 
Milking in my opinion is similar to a ruined orgasm. The woman edges you until you are very close to orgasm. She brings you very close several times until ultimately making you cum but stopping stimulation. You squirt out cum but there is little or no orgasm.

Milking is typically connected with prostate stimulation or play. If a lady stimulates your prostate long enough and done properly you will "leak" out lots of cum like mentioned above. Similar to a ruined orgasm above, this type of milking is done carefully so as not to cause an actual orgasm but still result in cum flow.

In my experience, milking leaves me feeling drained and in some cases physically tired, but still horny. Actually it is not easy to describe because it is such a different feeling. My balls are not full, I am not fully erect, I have no intense desire for sex, BUT I still have an aroused feeling. If she touches my dick and wants me erect I will become so easily and ready for any action she decides on.

I am sure everyone has their own reasons for milking and that kind of play. It may seem cruel to some but I can see how it can fit into fun D/s play.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph59da10fad910b

This^ video is a good example of ruined orgasms, around the 2:20 mark is a milking example.

ES
 
Tried several times on myself. I was never able to find the spot. Years ago even my GF tried, we couldn't find it. Plus she felt wrong about doing it.

I always wanted to do more ass play, both as sub and dom, but didn't have much luck with my GFs. Also I am quite tight there, and they were too.

If anyone feels like giving me some tips and maybe guide me in some way, send me a message. I am 32.
 
First off a quick **BUMP** to get it close to the TRY THIS thread as I believe they compliment each other.

""Milking in my opinion is similar to a ruined orgasm. ""

NOT in my experience. A woman CAN use the technique that way - orgasm denial but she can also keep him ooozing and on the brink of orgasm for an extended period of time. If he ultimately has an orgasm (or 3) then I don't see it as a ruined orgasm. The ones I've had like that didn't produce a lot of fluid cuz the seminal fluid had already all oooozed out but the actual orgasm was tremendous. There is also the psychological aspect of a guy being penetrated by his partner (providing they are hetero) so this can seem very erotic / kinky and stimulating in itself.

Peter ... the only advice I can give you is find a G/F who is either kinky to start with or is NOT repulsed by sticking her fingers up yo BUTT! I admit those women tend to be RARE but perhaps when you are giving her a good tongue lashing or a bunch of G-Gasms you could start playing with her ass too. If she associates her feelings of butt play as positive than she may be more willing to help you out. BUY rubber gloves, have her give you a quick enema before you play. ALL of that can increase intimacy and trust levels and increase both of your desires to experiment, learn, share and give your partner THE best sex they've ever had.
 
First off a quick **BUMP** to get it close to the TRY THIS thread as I believe they compliment each other.

""Milking in my opinion is similar to a ruined orgasm. ""

NOT in my experience. A woman CAN use the technique that way - orgasm denial but she can also keep him ooozing and on the brink of orgasm for an extended period of time. If he ultimately has an orgasm (or 3) then I don't see it as a ruined orgasm. The ones I've had like that didn't produce a lot of fluid cuz the seminal fluid had already all oooozed out but the actual orgasm was tremendous. There is also the psychological aspect of a guy being penetrated by his partner (providing they are hetero) so this can seem very erotic / kinky and stimulating in itself.

I understand and agree. It really depends on your definition of milking as I mentioned above.

For some, they define Milking as not touching or stimulating the dick to get a load of cum. Others define Milking as forcing cum out of a man's cock with no restrictions on how it is done, the only caveat is that it is forced out without the consent of the man. So it depends on your Milking definition.

To me, what you described is a prostate orgasm. If the woman does it correctly, you can have 2 or 3 orgasms--like you mentioned, and the actual orgasms are tremendous. It depends on what reaction the woman wants out of the man, if she is in control. She may choose to do something less pleasurable to the man but still exhausting and stimulating.

I agree with the psychological aspect as well. When a woman gives you amazing pleasure from prostate massage or milking, it can be very humbling and erotic at the same time.

ES
 
I agree with the psychological aspect as well.

ES

Absolutely. The biggest sex organ is your brain so when either partner does something that is outside the standard norms for a physical relationship then it kinda mind-fucks the partner. In this case the guy being penetrated by his female partner. Perhaps this is why so many guys think it will turn them gay or something horrid like that ...:D ...Our sexual relationships are all based on him penetrating her. Reverse that even if it's just fingers on the prostate and I can tell ya, there are parts of the brain that are going, "Whaaaaa T is happening here." And any long term relationship / marriage couples will tell you diversity is the cure for boredom and routine.
 
Absolutely. The biggest sex organ is your brain so when either partner does something that is outside the standard norms for a physical relationship then it kinda mind-fucks the partner. In this case the guy being penetrated by his female partner. Perhaps this is why so many guys think it will turn them gay or something horrid like that ...:D ...Our sexual relationships are all based on him penetrating her. Reverse that even if it's just fingers on the prostate and I can tell ya, there are parts of the brain that are going, "Whaaaaa T is happening here." And any long term relationship / marriage couples will tell you diversity is the cure for boredom and routine.

Again, Good point and well said.

I was on another site and this guy started a thread called the "Gay" switch. His theory was there is this switch inside every man and once it is pressed you become Gay. He seemed very serious about it, giving his reasons or facts that it does exist and once it is pushed you can't undo the switch.

At first I thought he was just making a joke but he seemed to be very serious as I read through the posts on his thread. You really can't make this stuff up! Hilarious. Eventually the thread was closed because of a lot of it got out of hand, name calling etc.

However, IF we reexamine what you said above, I can clearly see how some men might get worried. The "WhaaaaaT is happening here?" becomes a very pleasurable mind blowing orgasm and now the guy feels like he is a different person...being that he was penetrated back there and liked it. Maybe he is going to want to be with guys now?

The key here is that this is mainly theory (in my opinion). I have been there and done that. Meaning I had a nice woman give me several great prostate orgasms, pegging, and I did not once feel like I wanted to be with a man. Sure I feel different--not a different person--because I discovered a new erroneous zone on my body. That is great to me, another way to enjoy pleasure and orgasm.

ES
 
First off a quick **BUMP** to get it close to the TRY THIS thread as I believe they compliment each other.

""Milking in my opinion is similar to a ruined orgasm. ""

NOT in my experience. A woman CAN use the technique that way - orgasm denial but she can also keep him ooozing and on the brink of orgasm for an extended period of time. If he ultimately has an orgasm (or 3) then I don't see it as a ruined orgasm. The ones I've had like that didn't produce a lot of fluid cuz the seminal fluid had already all oooozed out but the actual orgasm was tremendous. There is also the psychological aspect of a guy being penetrated by his partner (providing they are hetero) so this can seem very erotic / kinky and stimulating in itself.

I understand and agree. It really depends on your definition of milking as I mentioned above.

For some, they define Milking as not touching or stimulating the dick to get a load of cum. Others define Milking as forcing cum out of a man's cock with no restrictions on how it is done, the only caveat is that it is forced out without the consent of the man. So it depends on your Milking definition.

To me, what you described is a prostate orgasm. If the woman does it correctly, you can have 2 or 3 orgasms--like you mentioned, and the actual orgasms are tremendous. It depends on what reaction the woman wants out of the man, if she is in control. She may choose to do something less pleasurable to the man but still exhausting and stimulating.

I agree with the psychological aspect as well. When a woman gives you amazing pleasure from prostate massage or milking, it can be very humbling and erotic at the same time.

ES

I really want to experience this! I can't talk my wife into trying it.
 
I really want to experience this! I can't talk my wife into trying it.

I am sorry to hear that. Maybe take baby steps and get her to just lightly touch the area near your anus while giving you a BJ or HJ. (The area between your anus and balls) Or have her try it during intercourse.

Next get her to just touch your anus and lightly rub it with a oily finger.

ES
 
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