Miles Long
Fuck victoriously!
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Miles, have you ever been one of the meats in a multiple meat sandwich?
Inquiring minds, and all...
He's vegan! That's not kosher!
Yeah what she said!
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Miles, have you ever been one of the meats in a multiple meat sandwich?
Inquiring minds, and all...
He's vegan! That's not kosher!
I'm not sure what who is doing what to my buns, but damn. Did I consent to this?
I'm deeply outraged and offended, madam!
I didn't hear a safe word.
What were we talking about?
Ah ha ha
Shut up, you know you're up for anything I'd suggest.
Be careful what you ask for with this crowd, beautiful.
Sorry sweetness. Let's get back to talking about body image while I put all the foods in my tummy? #fatgirl #carbs4lyfe
This. A million times. Because, God forbid, there might just be some men who’d prefer the kind of butt you so eloquently describe.I forgot to say earlier, that i think it's important for women of every size and shape to be able to describe themselves without self-deprecation. I've learned that the majority of men are very receptive, and while they may have preferences, are unlikely to turn down a romp with an engaging, playful, imaginative partner who's more about shaking her butt in his face than what size her knickers are.
At least, that's been my experience. YMMV.
I forgot to say earlier, that i think it's important for women of every size and shape to be able to describe themselves without self-deprecation. I've learned that the majority of men are very receptive, and while they may have preferences, are unlikely to turn down a romp with an engaging, playful, imaginative partner who's more about shaking her butt in his face than what size her knickers are.
At least, that's been my experience. YMMV.
This. A million times. Because, God forbid, there might just be some men who’d prefer the kind of butt you so eloquently describe.
Sadly, if were to say that I wouldn’t turn down a romp with an engaging, playful, imaginative partner just because she was a bit on the slim side, I’d be concerned it would sound like I was trying to make a point. But actually, it’s just the truth.
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Body Image (stolen)
Bringing this question from another thread but I'm curious how the kinkier among us will answer.
When it comes to sex/kink how do you feel about your body? When it comes to sex/kink, does it affect how you feel (e.g. size, age, race, disability, gender, etc)
Do you feel like your body type is portrayed or portrayed accurately in porn? Does it bother you? Have you ever seen something represented in a way that made you rethink an attraction?
And while I can look at other women like me and see their curves and their softness and find them 100% desirable and gorgeous, I can not see that in myself.
PrettyLilPussy19 if I may, where did your ideal of the perfect sub come from? I ask out of curiosity because it differs so much from my experience. I've always been amazed at the variety of body images of the submissives I've met at munches, play parties, and at kink events. Very few were as you describe. In fact a lot look like how the women have responded here.
Not be critical or argumentative. Truly just curious.
PrettyLilPussy19 if I may, where did your ideal of the perfect sub come from? I ask out of curiosity because it differs so much from my experience. I've always been amazed at the variety of body images of the submissives I've met at munches, play parties, and at kink events. Very few were as you describe. In fact a lot look like how the women have responded here.
Not be critical or argumentative. Truly just curious.
PLP, are you on FetLife? There are some incredibly sexy, kinky women there who don't fit any stereotype. I have a friend who likes the big girls and he and i used to message each other when one of us found a new curvy goddess. Dressed to kill in corset and strapon, tied up and gagged by a dude with pierced nipples, or naked as a jay bird and showing off her stuff. It takes some digging but they're there, and it's awesome.
Ah no problem.
I'll be the first to admit that I'm so green to all this so, of course, my "ideal" sub (and that certainly could have been phrased better) comes from media, porn, and conversation.
I think my first conversation with any kind of Dom involved him telling me his preference for a petite woman and why. And that's certainly his right to be attracted to what he wanted!! But it was a foundational conversation for me.
I just havent had as much experience irl for a multitude of reasons. I'm sure if I did/do my feelings would/will change entirely. I'm still learning and growing as a human, much less a kinky human. Those are my feelings now. Check back in 6 months and they may be entirely different. Thanks for probing deeper. I have no problem with that.
(And how appropriate that Fat Bottomed Girls - Queen just came on my shuffle )
Out of curiosity, does anyone - male or female - really notice the body types and appearance of men in porn?
Being male and straight I think I must just filter them out. I have a vague impression they have no body hair, lots of muscles, and (I guess?) above average sized penises. But I don’t watch enough kink porn to know if this is a more mainstream porn thing, and whether there’s a greater variety of men represented in kink?