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Amalgamation
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I don't often respond to threads that ask see questions, because I rarely have anything worthwhile to contribute. Guess I'm shallow like that. But for me, what makes sex not so great is if there is a lack of real connection prior to the sex happening. For me, connection is everything. It fuels whatever happens. If sex is rushed before I know we have connected, it's not good for me, even if my body responds in the right ways. My mind is usually wondering.