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Old 07-21-2016, 07:43 PM   #2376
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part of the stress of this stage is the "hurry up and wait."

Doctor order the biopsy (through another company.. because insurance sucks), and now I have to wait for the letter or call from the hospital for the date/ confirmation.

And it's taking fucking forever.
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Old 07-21-2016, 07:47 PM   #2377
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Name the place honey.
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you know.. I don't usually do bars.

mixing ADD with social anxiety with limited income makes bars pretty inhospitable.

At least I'm not as light sensitive as I used to be. Neons don't bother me anymore, but LED's still can.

I'll keep it in mind just the same. My wife might thank you for the idea.
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Old 07-21-2016, 08:00 PM   #2378
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wait wait... I know the place!

*quick web search*

wait... what?!?

CLOSED!?!?!

STEEEELLLLAAAAAAHHH!!!!
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Old 07-21-2016, 08:04 PM   #2379
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oh no.. not the inside jokes again.

OK so; there used to be a Stella's pastaria in Seattle's university district. No few fond memories of my own there (one of my exes took me there several times during that relationship), but I had a friend that lived much closer and frequented the place. When they closed down he found out when he tried to take me there... and stood outside sceaming STEEELLLAAA!!! which i didn't realize was a movie reference but should have known given the person in question.

Later it became an inside joke to mock yell "stella" every time a beloved restaurant closed down, which isn't often lately cuz I don't do restaurants much anymore.
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Old 07-21-2016, 08:06 PM   #2380
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So back to the topic:

AFK Elixirs & Eatery in renton has closed

wait... thats not the topic. what was the topic?

Oh yeah... this is FUCK YOU CANCER

restaurant chit chat elsewhere maybe?
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Old 07-21-2016, 08:15 PM   #2381
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you know.. I don't usually do bars.

mixing ADD with social anxiety with limited income makes bars pretty inhospitable.

At least I'm not as light sensitive as I used to be. Neons don't bother me anymore, but LED's still can.

I'll keep it in mind just the same. My wife might thank you for the idea.
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So back to the topic:

AFK Elixirs & Eatery in renton has closed

wait... thats not the topic. what was the topic?

Oh yeah... this is FUCK YOU CANCER
Sorry about the place in Renton. And I am not much for bars either.
you are more likely to find me in a... I think they call them "gastro- pubs"
good food, good micro beers, no neon and no sports TV and not too loud.
A place where you can find a dark quiet corner and hear the person you are talking to. Sounds like even you could manage that Staggy.

FYC

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part of the stress of this stage is the "hurry up and wait."

Doctor order the biopsy (through another company.. because insurance sucks), and now I have to wait for the letter or call from the hospital for the date/ confirmation.

And it's taking fucking forever.
Is there someone you can poke with a stick to make sure it is moving along?
Sorry you are stuck in the red tape zone now that you are ready to have it done.

FYC and all of the damn bureaucracy that makes the disease even fucking worse.

FYC.
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Old 07-22-2016, 03:48 AM   #2382
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For all the voices that speak here and all of those in all of your love orbits, my heart goes out to all of you. I'm so sorry that it hurts to face it and endure as it fans the fear and hard shakes the hourglasses, but from one human to another... thank you for loving anyways.

I'm so inspired to love even more honestly and completely now.

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Old 07-22-2016, 08:16 AM   #2383
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terrified of my upcoming thyroid biopsy.

that it should have been done years ago only serves to make the potential results more horrifying than the prospect of a needle in the throat.

the actual whole reason I've been posting lately.
Sorry you are facing a biopsy, but I agree with all the great support and advise you got here already! One of my kids gave me one of the cancer rubber bracelets at one of the cancer walks and it said "Fear Nothing". It was about not being afraid about facing diagnostics. We can only fight what we know. You can't change that you waited a while to have the biopsy so don't even think of it. Wait until you hear the doctor's opinions and then cheer great results... or iIF you get bad ones, grieve for a little bit but then, pick your butt and follow their advise and kick ass!!! Sincere positive thoughts and prayers headed your way!!! FUCK YOU CANCER!!!!
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biopsy scheduled. Baby steps.
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Old 07-22-2016, 03:27 PM   #2385
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biopsy scheduled. Baby steps.
Whew. Well you have a date.
Thinking of you.
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Old 07-23-2016, 12:49 AM   #2386
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biopsy scheduled. Baby steps.
Oh how I remember that back at the start of this month and then waiting and waiting for the results. Hang in there Stag...

Emma,, You Rock Girl!!!!

Hey CBound. How you doing?

Hey cmslt2326. Hang tough, because I know I still am.

To everyone else I know I missed:

Wishing you a brighter, happier and not to hot weather of a Saturday today
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Old 07-23-2016, 01:32 AM   #2387
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For all the voices that speak here and all of those in all of your love orbits, my heart goes out to all of you. I'm so sorry that it hurts to face it and endure as it fans the fear and hard shakes the hourglasses, but from one human to another... thank you for loving anyways.

I'm so inspired to love even more honestly and completely now.

FYC.
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Old 07-27-2016, 06:10 PM   #2388
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Update: Just got back from CTCA. Today was my first visit. A lot more paperwork and talked to about five different nurses today. More blood test. At least they are willing to listen and try to explain things to you as you ask questions and they explain things. I was told about some of the various treatments they offer, but plenty more to learn. Bigger day tomorrow as I will get to see more specialized doctors. They offer so many different treatments. Its a lot to take in right now.
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Update: Just got back from CTCA. Today was my first visit. A lot more paperwork and talked to about five different nurses today. More blood test. At least they are willing to listen and try to explain things to you as you ask questions and they explain things. I was told about some of the various treatments they offer, but plenty more to learn. Bigger day tomorrow as I will get to see more specialized doctors. They offer so many different treatments. Its a lot to take in right now.
You hang in there. It sounds as if you have a place and people you can put your trust in. I hope it proceeds well and you get more answers and some clarity and even a little ease.

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Update: Just got back from CTCA. Today was my first visit. A lot more paperwork and talked to about five different nurses today. More blood test. At least they are willing to listen and try to explain things to you as you ask questions and they explain things. I was told about some of the various treatments they offer, but plenty more to learn. Bigger day tomorrow as I will get to see more specialized doctors. They offer so many different treatments. Its a lot to take in right now.
Glad you are finding options and people who help you understand those options! Keep your spirit up and keep moving forward!!! FUCK YOU CANCER!
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Old 07-28-2016, 09:40 PM   #2391
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5 nurses talked with me yesterday for all intake. Bunch of departments today and still more tomorrow. CT Scan tomorrow also. Now they got me on supplements, starting tonight on them. Its to help build my immune system and get my strength up for what lies ahead of me. Will know more after CT Scan tomorrow.

Thanks everyone for the prayers and thoughts. I am still praying for the rest of too!
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5 nurses talked with me yesterday for all intake. Bunch of departments today and still more tomorrow. CT Scan tomorrow also. Now they got me on supplements, starting tonight on them. Its to help build my immune system and get my strength up for what lies ahead of me. Will know more after CT Scan tomorrow.

Thanks everyone for the prayers and thoughts. I am still praying for the rest of too!
praying for you sugar. Sounds like this is much better than the first doc you saw!
Hang tough.
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5 nurses talked with me yesterday for all intake. Bunch of departments today and still more tomorrow. CT Scan tomorrow also. Now they got me on supplements, starting tonight on them. Its to help build my immune system and get my strength up for what lies ahead of me. Will know more after CT Scan tomorrow.

Thanks everyone for the prayers and thoughts. I am still praying for the rest of too!
Happy you are moving forward with treatment options and that you seem much happier with your Cancer Specialists...still praying for you Devlishone...
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