Sweetdaisymae
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Am I am insider?
Interesting question.
I have been here a goodly few years, initially as a pretty green noob, and latterly as someone who is pretty much lifestyle, including working within the kink industry.
When I first came here, like everyone, I formed opinions of other posters. I watched how they interacted with others. Back then there were a couple of fairly established cliques. Certain threads were definitely pointless for me to post on as I would not get a response.
Maybe over time people have come to know me and understand my reasons for being here.
Yep I have been guilty in shooting some threads down in flames. They have been those that on the surface were raising a few red flags, then on closer inspection displayed a whole field full of them.
I'm not a young person, I have seen more than my fair share of bullshit. My tolerance for the stuff is pretty minimal, and yes I do tend to call it when I see it.
What we do can be bloody dangerous. On a thread that is asking for advice on something that could seriously fuck a person up, I'm will make no apologies if I am blunt to those who are peddling fluffy and dangerous bullshit (try getting that mental image out of your head!)
I have made some amazing friends in this group. I posted on many of the other groups, but over the years have gravitated exclusively here, as I feel comfortable here.
I know the dynamics, the friendships. I know the genuine BDSMers.
I have never seen a genuine request for information shot down, but I have seen plenty of "twue" Doms and dangerous players sent packing.
What I saw here last year, was the coming together of a long standing and diverse community, in support of one of its respected members. Everyone put aside whatever differences they had and pulled together.
I feel like I have found a comfortable niche here. I don't post as much as I used to. But would echo what a few others have said, in that I feel like I can be me here.
Interesting question.
I have been here a goodly few years, initially as a pretty green noob, and latterly as someone who is pretty much lifestyle, including working within the kink industry.
When I first came here, like everyone, I formed opinions of other posters. I watched how they interacted with others. Back then there were a couple of fairly established cliques. Certain threads were definitely pointless for me to post on as I would not get a response.
Maybe over time people have come to know me and understand my reasons for being here.
Yep I have been guilty in shooting some threads down in flames. They have been those that on the surface were raising a few red flags, then on closer inspection displayed a whole field full of them.
I'm not a young person, I have seen more than my fair share of bullshit. My tolerance for the stuff is pretty minimal, and yes I do tend to call it when I see it.
What we do can be bloody dangerous. On a thread that is asking for advice on something that could seriously fuck a person up, I'm will make no apologies if I am blunt to those who are peddling fluffy and dangerous bullshit (try getting that mental image out of your head!)
I have made some amazing friends in this group. I posted on many of the other groups, but over the years have gravitated exclusively here, as I feel comfortable here.
I know the dynamics, the friendships. I know the genuine BDSMers.
I have never seen a genuine request for information shot down, but I have seen plenty of "twue" Doms and dangerous players sent packing.
What I saw here last year, was the coming together of a long standing and diverse community, in support of one of its respected members. Everyone put aside whatever differences they had and pulled together.
I feel like I have found a comfortable niche here. I don't post as much as I used to. But would echo what a few others have said, in that I feel like I can be me here.
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