Bramblethorn
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I really wish I hadn't posted in this thread, because that's not at all what I said, and I don't know if I'm really that bad at communication (because if I am I don't know how I've lived this long. I would be dead if I could say something and have multiple people consistently think I meant the exact opposite) or if y'all are purposefully trying to make me seem like a dick or idiot.
Again, what I said is that there are different kinds of people, just like there are different kinds of dogs. And that subs, like dogs, are looking for someone to take care of them, but like different kinds of dogs, subs want to be taken care of in different ways.
FWIW, I got that.
I think maybe people got confused because stuff like "treat me like a dog" has its own connotations in BDSM, and you were talking actual RL canine behaviour not the BDSM metaphor (echoes of our discussion about werewolves!) but I got your meaning here.
Meanwhile, doms are like cats: we also want somebody to take care of us, but we want to feel like we're in charge while it happens. Or maybe that's just me.