Emirus
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Married but with a wife that would not understand why I would want to try an anal toy. I have read that stimulating the prostate is supposed to be mind blowing so I want to try it. I can go out and but the toy but I can't figure out where to hide it or if I do I can't figure out how to clean it. I was hoping to find a discreet anal toy I could try using but have come up blank. I figure if it looks like a brush or something I could just leave it kinda hidden and if it's seen it's no big deal. Where as if she finds a butt toy there would be some much embarrassing dialogue after that.
For those of you who have wonderful relationships and cant wrap your mind around my problem. No she won't understand, no I will not tell her. Yes we have great sex. No she is rarely kinky. No there is no way she would understand what I want. So I need to do this on the down low.
Any idea?
Before getting round to what to do about your problem let me say that I have a wife who wouldn’t understand. Apart from her thinking it an unnatural desire, despite us having a good sex life, it would develop into an undesirable situation. Forget about cucumbers, toothbrushes etc.
If I’ve understand correctly what you are looking for a butt plug, dildo or anything similar is a non starter. The purpose of a butt plug is to open the sphincter to allow easier passage of a dildo. Self use of a dildo is unlikely to give you the satisfaction you are looking for. Not every pro domme is able to use a dildo sufficiently expertly to provide prostate stimulation.
I suggest you buy yourself an Hitachi wand and use it to stimulate your prostate via the perineum. That’s the bit between your scrotum and anus. No problem with cleaning because it’s external not internal use. You would have to find somewhere to hide it and if you’re wife is anything like mine that will be impossible. The only times that I am able to enjoy it is when I get the opportunity to visit a pro domme who knows what they’re doing. I can assure you, from my own experience, that the effect will be nothing like you have experienced before. But whatever you do be careful.