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Lotus_Blossom_ · Sep 17, 2018

Ghosting is par for the course on here. I've been on both sides. Its usually nothing personal, just move on.

rlaflamme · Sep 17, 2018

Lotus_Blossom_ said:
Ghosting is par for the course on here. I've been on both sides. Its usually nothing personal, just move on.

I am sure most ghosting is unintentional. Does that make it easier?

And what do you do if a long-term conversationalist ghosts?

Lotus_Blossom_ · Sep 17, 2018

rlaflamme said:
I am sure most ghosting is unintentional. Does that make it easier?

And what do you do if a long-term conversationalist ghosts?

Unintentional? Then you can't have been that close to start with. Again, no big deal.

It's never a surprise. Conversations dwindle. You just know it's heading that way.

rlaflamme · Sep 17, 2018

Lotus_Blossom_ said:
Unintentional? Then you can't have been that close to start with. Again, no big deal.

It's never a surprise. Conversations dwindle. You just know it's heading that way.

I guess I should have said not personal, sorry.

And I know that they dwindle, just curious of how it effects people.

Thank you

sweettalk4u · Sep 17, 2018

Love your message and know the feeling

rlaflamme · Sep 17, 2018

sweettalk4u said:
Love your message and know the feeling

I hope you get what you want from the site. It is always a hope isn't it?

sweettalk4u · Sep 17, 2018

Love to chat with you

rlaflamme · Sep 18, 2018

sweettalk4u said:
Love to chat with you

Feel free to send a PM if you want.

I wonder how many people have turned there PMs off...

Wild_Honey_66 · Sep 18, 2018

rlaflamme said:
Feel free to send a PM if you want.

I wonder how many people have turned there PMs off...

Hi

Sometimes i turn mine off, sometimes i use a buddy list.

rlaflamme · Sep 18, 2018

Wild_Honey_66 said:
Hi

Sometimes i turn mine off, sometimes i use a buddy list.

I would guess that sometime the messages just get to annoying and you wouldn't want to deal with them anymore.

Or to many massages that lack any couth.

Wild_Honey_66 · Sep 18, 2018

rlaflamme said:
I would guess that sometime the messages just get to annoying and you wouldn't want to deal with them anymore.

Or to many massages that lack any couth.

Yes.

Or sometimes i just want privacy in my own box.

rlaflamme · Sep 18, 2018

Wild_Honey_66 said:
Yes.

Or sometimes i just want privacy in my own box.

That makes sense to me. Thank you for sharing.

Wild_Honey_66 · Sep 18, 2018

rlaflamme said:
That makes sense to me. Thank you for sharing.

Anytime.

Ivy1979 · Sep 18, 2018

What bothers me the most is that I put on my profile that I would like to talk to another woman. And what I have been mostly getting is guys telling me how they read their wife's literotica page and how it turned them on.

I think many people don't read all the words in a post or profiles of people they are about to PM.

It's frustrating.

rlaflamme · Sep 18, 2018

Ivy1979 said:
What bothers me the most is that I put on my profile that I would like to talk to another woman. And what I have been mostly getting is guys telling me how they read their wife's literotica page and how it turned them on.

I think many people don't read all the words in a post or profiles of people they are about to PM.

It's frustrating.

And I can see how that would be frustrating. When you are looking for something in particular and state that is what you are looking for, it is pretty rude to have people PM you that not only fail to be the right gender, but also have obviously not read words on a screen.

If you can't read words on a post or the words on a profile, why would someone think you can read the words in a message anyway, right?

Sorry for your frustration. Hopefully a good female conversationalist comes you way soon.

Ivy1979 · Sep 18, 2018

rlaflamme said:
And I can see how that would be frustrating. When you are looking for something in particular and state that is what you are looking for, it is pretty rude to have people PM you that not only fail to be the right gender, but also have obviously not read words on a screen.

If you can't read words on a post or the words on a profile, why would someone think you can read the words in a message anyway, right?

Sorry for your frustration. Hopefully a good female conversationalist comes you way soon.

I still have hope that I will get a good PM. I know that I still new. But some day

rlaflamme · Sep 18, 2018

Ivy1979 said:
I still have hope that I will get a good PM. I know that I still new. But some day

Good luck, hopefully you get someone that can read lol.

How often does this happen, when you lay out what you want and you get a PM from someone who is obviously out to try and just cyber or something?

rlaflamme · Sep 18, 2018

And I don't mean to insult people, but if you say you are looking for a conversation, be sure that is what you are really looking for.

When you start with a basic into on a PM and as soon as you get a reply you throw out the possibility of phone conversations and turn-ons, well, you should expect to not have a decent conversation.

At least I wouldn't.

rlaflamme · Sep 18, 2018

When you log on to this site, do you look to see if you have any messages before you look at threads you have subscribed to or the other way around?

Wild_Honey_66 · Sep 18, 2018

rlaflamme said:
When you log on to this site, do you look to see if you have any messages before you look at threads you have subscribed to or the other way around?

If you click on the 'user cp' button, it will show any new messages at the top of the page, and list your subscribed threads under that.

No need to check them separately.

rlaflamme · Sep 18, 2018

Wild_Honey_66 said:
If you click on the 'user cp' button, it will show any new messages at the top of the page, and list your subscribed threads under that.

No need to check them separately.

True, but which one do you open first? Or does it depend on who the message is from that makes you decide whether to look at the recent message or to look at the recent post first?

Wild_Honey_66 · Sep 18, 2018

rlaflamme said:
True, but which one do you open first? Or does it depend on who the message is from that makes you decide whether to look at the recent message or to look at the recent post first?

Yes, it depends on who the message is from.

rlaflamme · Sep 18, 2018

Wild_Honey_66 said:
Yes, it depends on who the message is from.

Makes sense to me. Thanks

Wild_Honey_66 · Sep 18, 2018

rlaflamme said:
Makes sense to me. Thanks

No problem.

rlaflamme · Sep 19, 2018

One thing I have come to learn is the word "conversation" does not mean the same thing to some people as it does others. It is kind of funny, because the world can be so simple yet so confusing.

Just a random thought, Have fun.

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