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Old 08-16-2017, 09:42 AM   #1426
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Old 08-21-2017, 06:36 PM   #1427
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Hello everyone! I'm here to chat with girls and discover how dark and kinky is my mind. I love discover more of myself so contact me.. Ciao :-*
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Old 08-22-2017, 09:45 PM   #1428
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Hello. I'm new to the site as well. I'm kinda shy to an extent and hoping this will help me. I'm very knowledgeable about most things but really love sex...so we'll see how this goes.
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Old 08-22-2017, 09:58 PM   #1429
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Hello. I'm new to the site as well. I'm kinda shy to an extent and hoping this will help me. I'm very knowledgeable about most things but really love sex...so we'll see how this goes.
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Old 08-24-2017, 01:22 PM   #1430
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Hello everyone! This is my first post, possibly of many, possibly of only a few. I'm not sure yet. I'm a bit more interested in one on one conversations, but time will tell, I suppose.

A bit about me: I've been into BDSM for a few years now with a small group of friends. I'm very much dominant. I can't get into being submissive at all. It just doesn't fit my personality, I suppose. I guess if I had to categorize the type of domme I am - and forgive me if I'm fucking up the terminology here - I'd call myself a "mommy domme," with a cruel streak a mile wide. But I swear, I'm a nice person when I'm out of character. I promise. Or at least I try to be.

Anyway, I hope this wasn't too rambly. I have a habit of being too verbose for my own good sometimes. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
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Old 08-24-2017, 06:11 PM   #1431
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Since today is my first day on these forums, hello to everyone.

I'm always open to the chance of a connection with the right woman.
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Old 08-28-2017, 09:35 AM   #1432
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Introducing myself

I found Literotica years ago, and I have enjoyed many stories involving BDSM. I only recently became a member here and created a profile. I jumped into the BDSM forum and posted a few comments before finding this section devoted to introductions. Here is a brief description of my experiences with BDSM.

At age 13 I saw my first image of a lady bound and gagged. I was in a bookstore, and it was a paperback book cover of a clothed woman with hands and feet tied, a cleave gag in her mouth, and ropes tied across her buxom chest. I remember immediately feeling a naughty guilty thrill, and my masturbatory fantasies featured tied and gagged women from then on. Three years later I found a discarded April 1978 issue of Hustler magazine that included two articles about bondage and BDSM. This was a revelation because I realized I was not alone in my fascination with gagging and tying women for sexual pleasure. It cemented my sexual preference for bondage, and I still have that magazine.

After I turned 18, I went to adult bookstores and bought bondage magazines that expanded my knowledge of bondage positions, different types of gags, and introduced me to the wonders of crotch ropes. I preferred the bondage magazines that emphasized bondage and discipline (B&D). In those days before the internet, I discovered a phone sex service and began to explore my bondage fantasies with real women. As I told them what to do and how I wanted them to be tied, I became comfortable with giving instructions, administering discipline, and being in command.

When the internet arrived it vastly expanded my ability to explore the world of BDSM. Dominance and submission caught my attention, and I was attracted to the concepts of safe, sane and consensual D/s. I engaged in cyber BDSM play. I identify as a scene/bedroom Dom, and I like strong intelligent women who freely choose to be my sexual submissive and enjoy being bound and gagged. I have been fortunate to share D/s bondage experiences with five such women over time.

I recognize and respect that everyone has their own beliefs, preferences and opinions. I intend that my forum posts and comments will reflect that spirit of live and let live. I look forward to sharing ideas and experiences.
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Old 08-28-2017, 10:55 AM   #1433
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Im new-ish. Havent really looked around the forums much. But i do tend to hang out in the chat room quite a bit on my down time.

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Old 08-28-2017, 12:47 PM   #1434
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Hello all

I'm new to the chats but not the stories. I've been reading and writing stories here for years. You can read my stories under my pen name lickerwell.

I'm very interested in female domination and don't really like male domination.

I spend s lot of time wondering why I am like this and can't figure out the cause.

The thing is, I love women, and I think they should be placed on a pedestal and revered. Maybe that sounds weird but that's me.

What I really enjoy is writing the stories though. Please check them out. I look forward to your feedback.
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Old 08-28-2017, 12:54 PM   #1435
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Hello all

I'm new to the chats but not the stories. I've been reading and writing stories here for years. You can read my stories under my pen name lickerwell.

I'm very interested in female domination and don't really like male domination.

I spend s lot of time wondering why I am like this and can't figure out the cause.

The thing is, I love women, and I think they should be placed on a pedestal and revered. Maybe that sounds weird but that's me.

What I really enjoy is writing the stories though. Please check them out. I look forward to your feedback.
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Old 08-31-2017, 06:44 PM   #1436
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Hi, Just looking to talk to like minded people really, Im a dom was in a long term Dom/Sub relationship a few years back, Been quiet for a few years and single I can`t go back to just a normal relationship anymore.
Read a graphic novel yesterday called Sunstone reminded me of who i really am.
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Old 09-05-2017, 09:27 AM   #1437
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Saying Hello and Thank You

Hello,

I found this site whilst doing some research for non-marking BDSM techniques and have found it to be a wonderful resource and entertainment all-around. I doubt that I will post a lot, but will certainly participate should I have any relevant information to share on a subject.

I am a 50 year old sexually dominant, single, heterosexual male. I was out of the "game" so to speak for a while in my rather vanilla marriage. I did have a sub on the side at times, but never long-term. Now that I have become free; I have gravitated back to my true self and can embrace my true proclivities once again.

I recently found an excellent sub to train and enjoy and am having a wonderful time. Your site is an immense source of both information and inspiration.

Thank you for having me here.
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Old 09-12-2017, 11:53 PM   #1438
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Very very long time reader and first time poster. 28, female, UK, submissive. Entering a new relationship where finally we're both on the same page sexually. Here for help for both of us!
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Old 09-13-2017, 04:20 AM   #1439
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I am new

I am new. Don't be supprised if I don't chat. I like reading all subjects, especially, if it is a continuing thread. One exception, repetitive.

I do like to chat as long as it is about the subject, not about sports or what somebody is doing etc.

I know people become friends, that is not unusual.

Have fun

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Old 09-13-2017, 04:41 AM   #1440
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Hi everyone, I just posted something in another thread in the BDSM section, so I figured I'd just pop in here to introduce myself. It seems like the polite thing to do.

Anyway, just some brief stuff about me. I'm happily married and a bit of a domme but nothing super serious, but I do find it very interesting. My man and I are just sort of doing our own thing and figuring it out together, but I'll hopefully get some ideas from you guys and girls here.
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Old 09-13-2017, 10:47 AM   #1441
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hi everyone I'm Frost. I'm not new to the site, but this is my first time making an account on here. I'm a 20 year old guy, and so far I've enjoyed stories from this site. if I'm in the wrong forum please tell me, but I am very interested in becoming a dominant. I have a few amateur experiences with roleplay of being a dominant, I was hoping someone could give me some help with learning more about this. I hope to hear back from someone.


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Old 10-05-2017, 05:37 PM   #1442
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Welcome to all the new folks. Look around get comfortable. Read the stickies at the top so you don't step in stuff too badly. It may look like all the old timers have no time for newbies, but we were all new once. Just jump in and join in the conversation. If you have questions or need help... just ask.

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Old 10-07-2017, 02:52 AM   #1443
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Hi, I've been around for a while, but decided to finally become official. It's good to be here. I am a barely 20 year old guy with a thing for control and leashes. I came here to contribute, but also wanna learn while I'm at it. Specifically, the proper cultivation of a sub. I've never quite been able to nail that... Anyway, It's good to finally have a voice!
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Old 10-09-2017, 01:28 PM   #1444
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Introduction.

It all started innocently enough. Co-workers who flirted a bit here and there. But then about four years ago, I received an email from Him on a Friday telling me to wear my red dress on Monday. My initial response was a typical “oh, so you like that dress,” to which he replied, “just do what I say.”

Well, that gave me something to think about over the weekend. I did want to wear the dress for Him, but I could not really articulate at that point why. What could be the harm? So, Monday morning I walk into the office wearing the red dress. And He has a proposal. The proposal is that we innocently explore our D/s feelings in the office. He makes the rules. I obey them.

What? We had never had a conversation remotely related to the topic of D/s. While I have had submissive fantasies for a long time, I had certainly never mentioned them to Him (or anyone else for that matter). Also…we are both married (and not to each other). But we started talking about what this “arrangement” would look like in the office, He gave me a (fairly fast) deadline to make a decision, and I decided to give it a try.

He did start out slow with me. Initially, the Rules included what I could wear, what I could drink, and how to address him. The list of Rules kept getting longer…and I started messing up, which led to punishment.

I was not expecting the punishment. I also wasn’t expecting my reaction to the punishment. The first time He disciplined me for not obeying Him, I had to meet him in a vacant office with a ruler. He used the ruler on the back of my hand, and when He was finished made me stand in a corner for several minutes while he went back to work. I stood in the corner not thinking about my stinging hand but about the wetness between my thighs and how I wanted Him to fuck me.
But…I am married and this arrangement was for the office only. Until one day, I get a text message to look in my wallet where I will find a hotel room key and to go immediately to the hotel room and await further instructions. When I arrived to the room, I received another text telling me to put on the blindfold I would find on the nightstand and to kneel in the center of the room holding the ruler I would also find.
The anticipation of waiting for Him, and wondering what was going to happen next, was more torturous than the spanking with the ruler I received that day in the hotel—with my clothes on. Four years later, when I am summoned to a hotel room, the only item of “clothing” I am allowed to wear is his collar. And things are tougher at the office too…I am required to hand over my panties and wedding rings every day. If I misbehave, I am summoned to his car for a humiliating spanking over his knee (and apparently I misbehave a lot). With IM and selfies, he is also able to insure that I follow his Rule to keep a shaved pussy, meet his clothing expectations on weekends, and I am ready for his use if he needs me in the evenings.

Now, I can articulate why I wanted to wear the red dress for Him. I wanted to wear the dress, because I wanted to obey him. I love His orders and I love the challenge of being His submissive. It is still a challenge, because he is always coming up with something new (for example, writing this introduction).


I am mortified to share all of this, but He demands that I do. He feels that I need to be more publicly forthcoming about my submissive needs. He has instructed me to respond politely to any comments or questions I may receive. As always, I will do as He instructs.
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Old 10-09-2017, 05:19 PM   #1445
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I am mortified to share all of this, but He demands that I do. He feels that I need to be more publicly forthcoming about my submissive needs. He has instructed me to respond politely to any comments or questions I may receive. As always, I will do as He instructs.
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Old 10-10-2017, 12:36 AM   #1446
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