Mirror image of my own situation , the exception being the big M , my wife's libido is non existent now , we have talked but she has zero interest in anything sexual . Before menopause our love life was acceptable , not great but ok . Sex has been a huge part of my life from an early age and still is but now reduced to a DIY situation .
In every other respect my wife is a wonderful woman so it's a situation that I have decided to tolerate however frustrating .
