Gi_Venus
Loving Heart
- Joined
- Nov 19, 2005
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Hi Red, This is a common problem amongst people, it is a different standard as to what is private and what is not. I know with my ex and I, we had a difference of opinion, I was more open and she more closed....so to share private things, conversation and such was off limits by her definition.It's isn't the topic as much as the lack of discretion. The topics have often been covered at Lit, that isn't what the blurt was about. It was the lack of private moments remaining private. That's all. The people of Lit are definitely the most important part of this community.
I think most people do not think about such things sometimes in their excitement to share with the community. But truly to have a more open relationship with people does require a certain amount of discretion otherwise.....people will loose trust and soon those that lack discretion find themselves acting in a shallow relationship with everyone and a loss of connection because people are afraid to share with them....not having read anything other that what was posted on this thread recently I am not directing this at anyone specifically(gotta have the disclaimer just in case someone personalizes this particular post) Oh and don't take with alcohol and gargle three times a day, click your heels three times and say......PPPPhhhhhhhhttttt! At the moon.