I've seen a few threads about which side of the slash people fall on in D/s relationships, and I used to think I was definitely on the submissive side. Now, however, I'm not so sure. I feel like I've gotten to know myself a bit better in the past year, and I'm starting think I'm passive... Not necessarily submissive.
Are there any other people who started out thinking they were submissive only to come to a different conclusion? Or rather, a Dom(me) who found someone that seemed submissive, but ended up being something other than? Or maybe being passive is just a lazy sub...? And maybe this is why they say, "pick your label," rather than lumping yourself into a vague category that could mean any number of things.
Anyyyywayyyyy... I think it's an interesting topic, but it might be a dead horse beaten long ago, and I missed the threads. If so, feel free to ignore this.
I'll be first to point out that I don't know anything about anything, so if I've made some faux pas or offended some group of people in some way, I apologize, that was certainly not my intent.
Thanks for reading
Are there any other people who started out thinking they were submissive only to come to a different conclusion? Or rather, a Dom(me) who found someone that seemed submissive, but ended up being something other than? Or maybe being passive is just a lazy sub...? And maybe this is why they say, "pick your label," rather than lumping yourself into a vague category that could mean any number of things.
Anyyyywayyyyy... I think it's an interesting topic, but it might be a dead horse beaten long ago, and I missed the threads. If so, feel free to ignore this.
I'll be first to point out that I don't know anything about anything, so if I've made some faux pas or offended some group of people in some way, I apologize, that was certainly not my intent.
Thanks for reading