"Gentle Fem Domme"
That sounds like just the kind of relationship I'm looking for. I tend to be submissive, but I'm not a doormat and I don't like to be abused. But I do like it when a woman makes the first move, or doesn't wait around for me to call , and is willing to make the plans for the evening.
I think my ideal relationship would also be an open relationship - where the woman can have sex with other men. I know I'm not very good in bed and its actually pressure off of me if I don't have be relied on the satisfy her sexually ... I would certainly try, but like I said, I know I have problems in bed, but I also have fantasies about licking her after she's been with another man or even sucking another mans cock while she watches to make his cock hard for her, and lick her after.