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Bi Married and closeted

I'm with you man
I'm 50 and have repressed my bi feelings for too long
I'm not too paronoid to be outed but cautious
What sealed the deal for me is that I find it hotter to
Have a quickie with a hot guy than a girl
Feel free to pm to chat
 
rfhh1959 said:
How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this
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I'm 50 married and Bi
The more I visit Lit. The more comfortable I am acting out
My real desires.
Prior it was just the internet
 
Me Too Kinda

Hi, I was married recently divorced. So the cheating feelings do not apply. So I don't know if you want to speak about it or not with me. Let me just say that now I AM going to pursue my gay / bi feelings.
 
I raise my hand rather slowly to be counted in on this. Coming out is not an option at this time, but I have found myself in a similar position to the rest of you.

I have been married for over 45 years, and until the last handful of years been attracted to only women. When my bi desires started to overwhelm my thoughts, I found a 'friend' to help me with it.

We had several rounds of amazing oral sex and I found out that I am a cocksucker at heart. I still crave pussy, but there is now more cock in my diet.

I have no intentions of stopping, nor do I see my way clear to be anything more than a closet cocksucker. We all do what we have to do.
 
Hot

jimmyturtleman said:
I raise my hand rather slowly to be counted in on this. Coming out is not an option at this time, but I have found myself in a similar position to the rest of you.

I have been married for over 45 years, and until the last handful of years been attracted to only women. When my bi desires started to overwhelm my thoughts, I found a 'friend' to help me with it.

We had several rounds of amazing oral sex and I found out that I am a cocksucker at heart. I still crave pussy, but there is now more cock in my diet.

I have no intentions of stopping, nor do I see my way clear to be anything more than a closet cocksucker. We all do what we have to do.
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You are living my dream...
 
jimmyturtleman said:
I raise my hand rather slowly to be counted in on this. Coming out is not an option at this time, but I have found myself in a similar position to the rest of you.

I have been married for over 45 years, and until the last handful of years been attracted to only women. When my bi desires started to overwhelm my thoughts, I found a 'friend' to help me with it.

We had several rounds of amazing oral sex and I found out that I am a cocksucker at heart. I still crave pussy, but there is now more cock in my diet.

I have no intentions of stopping, nor do I see my way clear to be anything more than a closet cocksucker. We all do what we have to do.
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I want a friend like that
 
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jimmyturtleman said:
I raise my hand rather slowly to be counted in on this. Coming out is not an option at this time, but I have found myself in a similar position to the rest of you.

I have been married for over 45 years, and until the last handful of years been attracted to only women. When my bi desires started to overwhelm my thoughts, I found a 'friend' to help me with it.

We had several rounds of amazing oral sex and I found out that I am a cocksucker at heart. I still crave pussy, but there is now more cock in my diet.

I have no intentions of stopping, nor do I see my way clear to be anything more than a closet cocksucker. We all do what we have to do.
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pgone
 
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cakes5307 said:
I came late to the bisexual thing and found that I like to suck cock. I did come out of the closet to my wife in an attempt to share that with her but she took it as cheating. That put me in the doghouse big time and I felt like an asshole for bringing that on myself. We did some counseling and she got over it but this is forbidden territory for me to explore on my own. If I do it again it'll be with her which is what I've wanted to do all along. She seems to be opening up to ideas as we get older so who knows?
We're starting to wade into lifestyle waters now.
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Congrats to you and your wife for getting past your coming out and staying together. Speaking for myself, I would love nothing better than to be able to involve my wife into the lifestyle, with me taking an active bi role. IF, she would even consider this, it would be a huge step for her and us. Alas, any hints that I have dropped to her were met with complete rejection and very specific consequences.

I hope it works out for you. I shall remain behind closet doors.
 
CNYCarol said:
Honestly, I've been asked what I miss most about NY. The snow!

I came here for the sailing.
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If you want snow. visit my daughter in Banner Elk N.C. I sail on Long Island.N.Y. I'm also a closeted married cocksucker.
 
everything the Mrs. does

CNYCarol said:
I think I may have started something. I've had over 30 guys respond privately saying how much they wish their wives would be up for watching. Several have hinted at letting another guy mount their wife in an anything goes MMF.

You guyz have no imagination, Tell the Mrs you want to try everything she does. It may take a few days for her to realize it, but you just told her you want to suck. When she catches on, go slowly. Ask her what it's like, how does it taste.

NEVER tell her you've had a suck buddy while she's been with you, that makes you a cheater. That will destroy any trust she ever had.
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I was a Bi-male long before any marriage. None of my wives would ever approve of me being Bi or gay. That is the way it was in the 60's, 70's and even now unless you live in a big city where acceptance is popular. If I was to tell my wife "I want to do what you do" then she would say "you go ahead and find you a cock to suck. I am out of here." Just the way old attitudes hang around. Some women are ok with MMF sex but many are not let alone one on one male action.
 
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CNYCarol said:
Tell the Mrs you want to try everything she does. It may take a few days for her to realize it, but you just told her you want to suck. When she catches on, go slowly. Ask her what it's like, how does it taste.

NEVER tell her you've had a suck buddy while she's been with you, that makes you a cheater. That will destroy any trust she ever had.
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A few years back I told my wife that as a teenager, I used to suck my best friend's HUGE cock practically every day after school and that I really loved doing it. I said it after she had admitted that she used to like giving her ex husband blowjobs because he had a very big cock, unlike my extremely small one. She was surprised to learn I had once been a cocksucker, but attributed it to adolescent sexual experimentation, which in a way it was. What I didn't tell her was that I never stopped giving guys blowjobs and that I still do it. I have attempted on numerous occasions to revisit the conversation in the hope of possibly telling her the truth, but she quickly changes the subject, once becoming quite irritated. She might suspect I'm still a cocksucker, but would prefer not to know for sure. She seems to have lost respect for me since my confession.
 
OP, you are very far from alone. If you can get yourself to take that big step and actually get together with someone, you'll open up a whole new world of erotic delight for yourself. Best of luck to you.
 
I'm in somewhat situation
I've repressed feelings for too long. It really started spewing out (pardon the pun) in the last couple of years .
Telling my wife is not an option right now, but I think she
Has an idea of my desires as she caught me watching
Gay and Bi porn . Right now it's "Don't ask don't tell "
The good news is I have a FWB we get together a couple of
Times a week. He lives on my mail route so it works out good


.
 
Hornycanuk69 said:
I'm in somewhat situation
I've repressed feelings for too long. It really started spewing out (pardon the pun) in the last couple of years .
Telling my wife is not an option right now, but I think she
Has an idea of my desires as she caught me watching
Gay and Bi porn . Right now it's "Don't ask don't tell "
The good news is I have a FWB we get together a couple of
Times a week. He lives on my mail route so it works out good


.
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Good luck and enjoy
 
hey...

jimmyturtleman said:
I raise my hand rather slowly to be counted in on this. Coming out is not an option at this time, but I have found myself in a similar position to the rest of you.

I have been married for over 45 years, and until the last handful of years been attracted to only women. When my bi desires started to overwhelm my thoughts, I found a 'friend' to help me with it.

We had several rounds of amazing oral sex and I found out that I am a cocksucker at heart. I still crave pussy, but there is now more cock in my diet.

I have no intentions of stopping, nor do I see my way clear to be anything more than a closet cocksucker. We all do what we have to do.
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If you are ever in the Detroit metropolitan area and in need of some "closet" action, I know a couple of closets you can hit and if ya need some reciprocation; I will be available for assistance.
 
oneblueye said:
If you are ever in the Detroit metropolitan area and in need of some "closet" action, I know a couple of closets you can hit and if ya need some reciprocation; I will be available for assistance.
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Thank you for the very considerate offer. I will keep that in mind. I am going to be in the U.P. in mid July, but wife will be with me. If only she approved....
 
Hi from DC Area or Richmond?

Looking for someone that is very discreet like myself.
 
Hornycanuk69 said:
I'm in somewhat situation
I've repressed feelings for too long. It really started spewing out (pardon the pun) in the last couple of years .
Telling my wife is not an option right now, but I think she
Has an idea of my desires as she caught me watching
Gay and Bi porn . Right now it's "Don't ask don't tell "
The good news is I have a FWB we get together a couple of
Times a week. He lives on my mail route so it works out good


.
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married for about 8 years wife doesn't really take care of herself (doesn't work out) lives unhealthy lifestyle smkes about 1/2 a pack a day.. Has put on weight i believe because of premenapaus she is in her late 30's but is quickly getting a body of someone much older..

first gay encounter-i had an experience with when i was 16 spent the night friend discussed about sucking another persons cock and converstion grew from their i mentioned could suck mine but at the time i didn't recipricate- he sucked my cock but didn't finish i was too young to attempt to suck his and finished myself off in bathroom and went to bed.

there are many of us out there i think it stems from wives not keeping themselves up.. i believe porn sets it off. Also- believe the less your wife knows the better
 
shirleycd said:
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

My situation and I like to crossdress
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I agree, you can't be too cautious. First think is to bend over in that cute little dress and get spanked, because you know you are bad.

Very bad.

Then it's suck time.
 
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I think the saddest thing is that there are probably more of us out there than we really know. There's a small sample on here that are bold enough to share their feelings, but who knows about the wider world.

Your office mate, the guy at the hardware store, or the donut shop, the guy on your bowling team/poker group/golf foursome - they all may be dreaming about cock.
 
jackielicker said:
I think the saddest thing is that there are probably more of us out there than we really know. There's a small sample on here that are bold enough to share their feelings, but who knows about the wider world.

Your office mate, the guy at the hardware store, or the donut shop, the guy on your bowling team/poker group/golf foursome - they all may be dreaming about cock.
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I've often wondered that. Imagine if your neighbour had the same feelings and was sporting a gorgeous huge cock.
 
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