Are you dominant or submissive
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BiMale4KinkyFun
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I would say I some where in between new sub and novice sub.
MysteryMan2014
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Both. 
Why limit yourself to one when both can be sooooooooo much fun!!!!?
Why limit yourself to one when both can be sooooooooo much fun!!!!?
msub50some
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I'm submissive, have considered myself so for over 30 years. Just haven't had much chance to act on it.
KashAlmighty5
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Dominant alpha male by nature..my BBC is my badge of Honor 
love to dominate mentally as well as Sexually
love to dominate mentally as well as SexuallyWashWiscMan23
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I think I'm submissive. At least i have fantasies of being so.
Subinplaid
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Very submissive here
Threadbare42
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I used to think of myself as more dominant, but recently I've found the idea of the right sort of domme very alluring, mainly from dominant/powerful female characters I've seen in media. I guess it depends on the scenario, I go by what scene or fantasy I like, rather than the specific dynamic involved.
newhere2learn
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Both.
Why limit yourself to one when both can be sooooooooo much fun!!!!?
This, all day every day..switching is so much fun
switchbitch
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its in my name for a reason 
subtle_Dom
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its in my name for a reason
ahh to have so many options.. been a long time since I have seen you, hope you have been well SB,...
And I guess mine is in my name for a reason as well.
reddelicious
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Default is submissive, but I’ve had a fun time being dominant in some scenarios. But I think submissive is what feels more natural and gets me hotter.
Fedora_Hat
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Dominant.
PollyoxideBlonde
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I am completely submissive in the bedroom and like to be completely dominated. I like to essential be the guys own personal Barbie doll to do whatever he wants with. I love to have zero will in the bedroom and just be at the whim of his desires and demands.
FloridaBob
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I could probably go either way,but if I had to choose,I guess submissive. Thinking it would be kind of hot serving a woman. Ladies ?
Bob
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In the relationship sense, I'm very submissive - though I believe I could switch given the right person and a very well-thought out scene to allay my anxiety.
In a more everyday sense, I tend to be a people-pleaser, but I've been told I'm a natural leader as well. I guess that's mostly because when something needs to be done, instead of dithering about who will do it, I'll just go on and accomplish it.
In a more everyday sense, I tend to be a people-pleaser, but I've been told I'm a natural leader as well. I guess that's mostly because when something needs to be done, instead of dithering about who will do it, I'll just go on and accomplish it.
Darkling_fae
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Dominant in social groups, submissive in the bedroom.
newhere2learn
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Always found the same. Minute I'm caged or my ass is touched, I give up all resistance
awired50
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Can be wonderful !
