SlutAddicted
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It isn't different. I don't *need* an emotional connection, but I think it makes the sex better, and certainly the sorts of things I'm doing with the BF wouldn't be possible (for me) if there wasn't something more than just sex.
As I'm sure I said earlier, I don't think love/affection/caring is a finite resource ... but time is.
My intent is to relate that as a man I also find the sex better if there is an emotional connection. That connection can take many forms and might not even be possible without that connection. But it need not be exclusive and as you have reiterated the emotion is most certainly not finite.