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Married but bi curious. Am I alone?

Am I alone?

midwestmomlvr said:
You are definitely not alone. I resisted temptation for a long time but ultimately gave in. My M/M experiences were incredibly hot and I would do it again (in a heartbeat) if I could find the right partner.

My only caution for you is this: IF you decide to "take the plunge" and try anal sex, be sure you clean yourself out a couple hours beforehand with an enema. That will help to avoid any unpleasant accidents. Having said that, receiving anal is one of the most intense and pleasurable experiences I've ever had. I highly recommend it.
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I love anal play with dildos and butt plugs however, I have not had the pleasure yet to "take the plunge and try anal sex" for real...although, like you say, if I could find the right partner, I would in a heartbeat! :)

Your description as "...receiving anal is one of the morst intense and pleasurable experiences I've ever had..." sounds very exciting and makes me want to experience anal even more...thank you! :)
 
alwayshornyhubby85 said:
I've been married for 5 years, but I've noticed that I tend to deviate to the shemale/transsexual and gay literotica stories and videos. I'm happily married, but there is just something so sexy about sucking a cock for the first time and getting fucked. I naturally don't want to jeopardize my marriage, but if there was an opportunity while on business or at a hotel near home/work I think I may try it... if I can muster the courage.

I've always wanted to feel what it would be like to have a cock up my ass. The idea gets me so hard. I love the stories about a guy who finds a girl, who ends up having a cock; or even the guy that gets seduced into "turning out" the first time; or the guy who's wife gets fucked by a guy and then sucks the guys dick and gets fucked in front of his wife.

Am I crazy? Am I alone in this thought? Are there other married men in a similar situation.

My wife is drop dead gorgeous and our sex life is amazing, but I can't help but wonder sometimes.
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Holy crap! Only a 5 minutes perusal of the forums here would tell you you're not alone! TONS of guys and TONS of hot threads...
 
Not alone!!! The thought and desire seems to be on my mind all of the time. When it happens, it just has to be with the "right" guy.
 
Older guy here, been divorced about 5 years. Kind of bi curious. I find myself getting aroused looking at gay porn. I have never acted on it but wonder what I would do if I had an opportunity to participate in some mutual masterbation and oral sex with another guy.
 
Not alone. If I'm horny there is almost nothing off the fantasy table. Shemales, bi-sex, gang bangs...it all sounds good. I like pleasure. I like sex. Not sure why I'd rule out the pleasure another penis could bring to the table. Just no kissing. Blech.
 
I'm of the opinion that we are all naturally bisexual. If we free ourselves of society's rules and limitations we could have sex with any willing partner, regardless of gender. I also think you haven't fully experienced masculinity until you've sex with a man; sucking, fucking, getting fucked...all of it with no limits.
 
Yes we are alone, and no we are not,
just in the same boat, fishin pole out and trolling,
hoping to catch a FWB's.
did it when i was younger wanna do it again.
 
Hitchiker69 said:
I'm of the opinion that we are all naturally bisexual. If we free ourselves of society's rules and limitations we could have sex with any willing partner, regardless of gender. I also think you haven't fully experienced masculinity until you've sex with a man; sucking, fucking, getting fucked...all of it with no limits.
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I share your assessment and feelings.
 
Hitchiker69 said:
I'm of the opinion that we are all naturally bisexual. If we free ourselves of society's rules and limitations we could have sex with any willing partner, regardless of gender. I also think you haven't fully experienced masculinity until you've sex with a man; sucking, fucking, getting fucked...all of it with no limits.
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I would agree with the assessment except for the word "all.". There are some in the curve of human sexuality that are exclusively hetero and some exclusively homo. Others may have varying degrees of bisexuality and society can tend to suppress those from taking any action on their bisexual desires. And that suppression is a shame to me. Life could be better with more openness and acceptance.
 
Open the closet

Life is too short to stay in the closet. Open up and learn to enjoy life.:)
 
not alone

I have had these thoughts as long as I can remember. Have never had the courage to make it a reality.
 
saintcero said:
I would agree with the assessment except for the word "all.". There are some in the curve of human sexuality that are exclusively hetero and some exclusively homo. Others may have varying degrees of bisexuality and society can tend to suppress those from taking any action on their bisexual desires. And that suppression is a shame to me. Life could be better with more openness and acceptance.
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completely agree. personally my bi feelings may vary day to day. fm light bi to almost gay
 
LoftyCraig said:
completely agree. personally my bi feelings may vary day to day. fm light bi to almost gay
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I agree that certain scenes and people elicit different urges and wants. I guess that's why sometimes its all about a woman and then other times, I want the choice.
 
ssremember129 said:
I agree that certain scenes and people elicit different urges and wants. I guess that's why sometimes its all about a woman and then other times, I want the choice.
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Not alone I have the same feelings in Texas anybody else out there?
 
Woo hoo! There are more of us!

Hey gents,

Great to see this stream of thoughts here, and that there are many of us out there. I'm new to it all too, and love the idea of thinking about other married guys with the same thoughts.

Florida married guy here, 42, love to connect with others that are in the same boat.

Always up for a chat, or see where it goes! :)
 
alwayshornyhubby85 said:
I've been married for 5 years, but I've noticed that I tend to deviate to the shemale/transsexual and gay literotica stories and videos. I'm happily married, but there is just something so sexy about sucking a cock for the first time and getting fucked. I naturally don't want to jeopardize my marriage, but if there was an opportunity while on business or at a hotel near home/work I think I may try it... if I can muster the courage.

I've always wanted to feel what it would be like to have a cock up my ass. The idea gets me so hard. I love the stories about a guy who finds a girl, who ends up having a cock; or even the guy that gets seduced into "turning out" the first time; or the guy who's wife gets fucked by a guy and then sucks the guys dick and gets fucked in front of his wife.

Am I crazy? Am I alone in this thought? Are there other married men in a similar situation.

My wife is drop dead gorgeous and our sex life is amazing, but I can't help but wonder sometimes.
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intense.. highly desirable
 
I suppose we all have to live within our own heads. If you're comfortable with it that's fine but I suspect there are many herein who aren't really entirely comfortable with the difference between who they appear to be on the outside, who they are on the inside, and who they really want to be.

Why do the men on this site (or any similar site for that matter) who have an unfulfilled desire to have sex with other men say they are "bi curious"? Why isn't it "gay curious"?

You may be bisexual, I'm bisexual, but you aren't looking to have "bi sex" (unless throwing a woman into the mix for say an MMF). You're looking to have sex with another man, to engage in same sex sexual acts, and that by definition is engaging in gay sexual practices (aka homosexual acts) and there's nothing wrong with that.

Why can't "bi curious" men get over the fact that what they are seeking is not "bi sex" but rather "gay sex"? Sure, I may be quibbling over words but so are you.

So many say something akin to, " I've had these bi curiosities."....as do I though they're not really "curiosities" since I've done it and they aren't "bi" they're gay. I had a long term relationship with a male friend which started early and continued through several years of college. I used to say, think, or at least justify it in my head as a "bisexual relationship" (since we also had girlfriends) but as I grew older I came to grips with the fact that it was a gay relationship.

Those who haven't really experienced it can say, all they want, that they don't want any kind of relationship or personal connection, just sex, and they may get that, but they also may find out they have feelings, and shall we say latent tendencies and orientation, they've suppressed for decades. There's nothing wrong with that, introspection is healthy and self discovery can be wonderful. That said, be willing to be honest with yourself.

I too live a straight life. I too am attracted to women, preferably with big breasts, and I'm married to one I love and with whom I enjoy sex very much. Fortunately, we've always been open with each other, she knows my past and I hers, and she's more than willing to do things to fulfill some of my "less vanilla" (anal) sexual proclivities. I raised four great, now grown, kids and I wouldn't trade that for the world. They probably wouldn't exist if, and at least in part due to my conservative Christian guilt and familial attitudes, I had taken "the path less traveled".

I still have desires. I was probably a hair's breadth away from being exclusively gay at one point in my life. My former friend and lover eventually took that path though he had a sham straight marriage that everyone, including his wife, knew was such. Though I've no complaints about the life I've lead I still get wistful sometimes and wonder, "What if...?"

Which brings me to another brain bender which is the old "nature vs nurture" argument. My first sexual activity (other than just kissing) with another person was literally at the hands of my best male friend and developed into much more. Had it been the other way around, and had my first orgasm with another person been with a woman, would I still have developed these feelings for men?

Was there a chemistry, an aura, a vibe that led my friend to believe I'd be receptive to his advances or was it just by chance? Was that the kind of relationship I really wanted? Did I always have a desire for men (I certainly always had a thing for anal stimulation), or did it become the norm just because once the ice was broken it was convenient and easier than courting women? (Though I've never been without a woman in my life...for long.)

I've been haunted by these doubts and thoughts for decades and thank God I've had an understanding, and kinky, wife to help me through it.

Don't get me wrong, please, I'm not being judgmental I just want people to look inside and be honest with themselves.
 
UnderMyKilt said:
I suppose we all have to live within our own heads. If you're comfortable with it that's fine but I suspect there are many herein who aren't really entirely comfortable with the difference between who they appear to be on the outside, who they are on the inside, and who they really want to be.

Why do the men on this site (or any similar site for that matter) who have an unfulfilled desire to have sex with other men say they are "bi curious"? Why isn't it "gay curious"?

You may be bisexual, I'm bisexual, but you aren't looking to have "bi sex" (unless throwing a woman into the mix for say an MMF). You're looking to have sex with another man, to engage in same sex sexual acts, and that by definition is engaging in gay sexual practices (aka homosexual acts) and there's nothing wrong with that.

Why can't "bi curious" men get over the fact that what they are seeking is not "bi sex" but rather "gay sex"? Sure, I may be quibbling over words but so are you.

So many say something akin to, " I've had these bi curiosities."....as do I though they're not really "curiosities" since I've done it and they aren't "bi" they're gay. I had a long term relationship with a male friend which started early and continued through several years of college. I used to say, think, or at least justify it in my head as a "bisexual relationship" (since we also had girlfriends) but as I grew older I came to grips with the fact that it was a gay relationship.

Those who haven't really experienced it can say, all they want, that they don't want any kind of relationship or personal connection, just sex, and they may get that, but they also may find out they have feelings, and shall we say latent tendencies and orientation, they've suppressed for decades. There's nothing wrong with that, introspection is healthy and self discovery can be wonderful. That said, be willing to be honest with yourself.

I too live a straight life. I too am attracted to women, preferably with big breasts, and I'm married to one I love and with whom I enjoy sex very much. Fortunately, we've always been open with each other, she knows my past and I hers, and she's more than willing to do things to fulfill some of my "less vanilla" (anal) sexual proclivities. I raised four great, now grown, kids and I wouldn't trade that for the world. They probably wouldn't exist if, and at least in part due to my conservative Christian guilt and familial attitudes, I had taken "the path less traveled".

I still have desires. I was probably a hair's breadth away from being exclusively gay at one point in my life. My former friend and lover eventually took that path though he had a sham straight marriage that everyone, including his wife, knew was such. Though I've no complaints about the life I've lead I still get wistful sometimes and wonder, "What if...?"

Which brings me to another brain bender which is the old "nature vs nurture" argument. My first sexual activity (other than just kissing) with another person was literally at the hands of my best male friend and developed into much more. Had it been the other way around, and had my first orgasm with another person been with a woman, would I still have developed these feelings for men?

Was there a chemistry, an aura, a vibe that led my friend to believe I'd be receptive to his advances or was it just by chance? Was that the kind of relationship I really wanted? Did I always have a desire for men (I certainly always had a thing for anal stimulation), or did it become the norm just because once the ice was broken it was convenient and easier than courting women? (Though I've never been without a woman in my life...for long.)

I've been haunted by these doubts and thoughts for decades and thank God I've had an understanding, and kinky, wife to help me through it.

Don't get me wrong, please, I'm not being judgmental I just want people to look inside and be honest with themselves.
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The man talks sense, I am a married man, who has been having a Gay relationship with a Gay man for sometime, when I am with him we are Gay, when I think about him and us it is as Gay men. you are curious about being Gay.
 
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