Friend's husband cheated on her. She found out and...pretty much did nothing, but listen to his BS about how she drove him to it because she no longer 'rattles his cage'
She never punished him in anyway or made him pay any type of price, just believed his "I'm sorry" sorry ass apology.
So now its a year later and she sneaks looks at his phone and asks me and other friends to call numbers she doesn't recognize to see who answers. She's always pouring over the phone bill and CC statements and bank statements looking to see if there's any strange purchases.
That's a sad and pointless way to live.
I believe cheating is a behavioral trait. In other words once a cheat always a cheat.
The one thing I will never understand is a man or woman who will sleep with a married man/woman and wait for them to leave their marriage then when they do...they think that dog will be loyal to them?
Low self esteem is the only reason a man or woman will forgive and deal with cheating.
Yes, I'm a woman. No, I'm not your woman. Polite, friendly messages welcome, even playfully flirty is okay. If you lead with a dick pic or tell me "what you're going to do to me" you will be ignored.