I've never put much weight in using labels, except perhaps "wench" to address my girlfriend.
I'm not really up much for humiliation of my sub, especially in public, though there was that one time, I felt my sub was humiliating me in public and a little "eye for an eye" seemed apprapo.
"Kiss my ass"? Sure sweety, expose cheek and wet smooch applied to her tush in the middle of the store.
(She had an unnerving predilection for saying that all the time. I warned her many times not to do that in public)
In private, like AngelSky and Prof Bill have mentioned, I don't like using "abusive" terms. Hell, even when I'm in a fight, I don't like using abusive terms, besides "you're being stupid/foolish/obstinate."
I'm not really up much for humiliation of my sub, especially in public, though there was that one time, I felt my sub was humiliating me in public and a little "eye for an eye" seemed apprapo.
"Kiss my ass"? Sure sweety, expose cheek and wet smooch applied to her tush in the middle of the store.
(She had an unnerving predilection for saying that all the time. I warned her many times not to do that in public)
In private, like AngelSky and Prof Bill have mentioned, I don't like using "abusive" terms. Hell, even when I'm in a fight, I don't like using abusive terms, besides "you're being stupid/foolish/obstinate."