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And I want to ask you gentlemen, that's what! My husband does not like what I like. I do not know how to make him understand me. He is against my inclinations. It can not be said that he categorically forbids it. But also does not encourage my actions. I always have to be the initiator of such scenes, and present it as a coincidence. But, it can not go on forever. Fantasies, and my actions are already repeated. And he certainly notices it, and gives me information about it. What should I do? How can I explain to him that I need this. I want him to be the initiator. I can not understand why he does not seek to expose me in situations ENF, CFNF CMNF and OON.
 
I would happily help you live out that fetish. NIP/ENF are my fetishes too...
 
varv said:
And I want to ask you gentlemen, that's what! My husband does not like what I like. I do not know how to make him understand me. He is against my inclinations. It can not be said that he categorically forbids it. But also does not encourage my actions. I always have to be the initiator of such scenes, and present it as a coincidence. But, it can not go on forever. Fantasies, and my actions are already repeated. And he certainly notices it, and gives me information about it. What should I do? How can I explain to him that I need this. I want him to be the initiator. I can not understand why he does not seek to expose me in situations ENF, CFNF CMNF and OON.
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Seems like you are with someone you are not sexually compatible with. A sexpositive therapist could help, but I doubt he will go for that. :(
 
So, if you ever come back here to read the responses, just what do you want him to do?

Strip you naked at the next party you two attend?

Tell you to give him you panties while sitting at the bar in the local hotel?

Have you walk down the hallway of the hotel you stay at naked?

:D:devil:
 
After I thought about it a little I realized that I have played this way many times with my ex wife and various girlfriends. I always just thought of it as great humiliation scenes and didn't attach the initials.. especially ENF or OON which I had never heard before.

Blushing girls turn me on tremendously... I'v often stripped my wife or g/f while on trips, having her ride naked and exposed down the Interstate. Her whimpers and whines, and sometimes tears are a huge turn-on, not to mention being able to look over and seeing her visibly wet, aroused pussy and hard nipples..

Our favorite game tho didn't involve nudity or risk of arrest, just EXTREEEEEEEEMELY poor taste.. I'd take her thrift store shopping and buy her outfits that were at least 2 sizes too small or age inappropriate, and then take her out in public.. Her shame at being "forced" to wear such revealing clothing seems almost overwhelming to her, but she gets so turned-on that her pussy will leak down her thighs.... That makes it doubly shameful, knowing that no "normal" woman would be caught out dressed like she is, but that her arousal is obvious to anyone that sees her..
 
Bikesandfires07
I'm sorry, but that doesn't answer my question. And simply your experience
 
I'm not a guy but you can't *make* someone understand you. And even if by some miracle, they do understand it on their own, you can't make them want to do it.
 
Zeb_Carter said:
So, if you ever come back here to read the responses, just what do you want him to do?

Strip you naked at the next party you two attend?
so I will answer. I don't know yet if I want him to undress me at the party. I would like him not to object, but rather to be proud of me, if I suddenly (maybe even accidentally) find myself naked in the company of friends or relatives, where of course he will be too.
Tell you to give him you panties while sitting at the bar in the local hotel?
I don't think I have much of a fetish. It doesn't excite me emotionally.
Have you walk down the hallway of the hotel you stay at naked?
if there is such a possibility. I like to be naughty when I'm far away from home. For example abroad on vacation.
299ea5e965.jpg roughly so
:D:devil:
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did I answer your questions? You're mine, no.:(
 
You can't make someone don't something they are not comfortable with. We cant always have what we want.
 
Varv, would YOU be aroused and turn-ed on if you were the female in the examples I described?

Can you describe your feelings and state of mind when you are exposed?
 
Bikesandfires07 said:
Varv, would YOU be aroused and turn-ed on if you were the female in the examples I described?
In my opinion, your examples show signs of violent humiliation, which I categorically do not accept. A man should be a gentleman, not a despot. If I were in this situation, you probably experienced first of all, the shame, the despair of her helplessness. And certainly, no excitement.
Can you describe your feelings and state of mind when you are exposed?
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in a few words, it is difficult to do.
 
Bikesandfires07 said:
Varv, would YOU be aroused and turn-ed on if you were the female in the examples I described?
In my opinion, your examples show signs of violent humiliation, which I categorically do not accept. A man should be a gentleman, not a despot. If I were in this situation, you probably experienced first of all, the shame, the despair of her helplessness. And certainly, no excitement.
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I don't see any signs of violence in what I described... And even if it was violent, it was consensual.. And their arousal was obvious to anyone that cared enough to look.. They could have used a safeword at any point.
 
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I'm still struggling to get my husband to TOTG and GHFCOTF.

TOTG = Take Out The Garbage

GHFCOTF = Get His Fucking Clothes Off The Floor!
 
littlecordelera said:
I'm still struggling to get my husband to TOTG and GHFCOTF.

TOTG = Take Out The Garbage

GHFCOTF = Get His Fucking Clothes Off The Floor!
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šŸ˜‚ I think the paddles and butt plugs need to come out. As far as this and similar topics, have voyage to have the conversations and find a middle ground. It might be as simple as watching porn that aligns with your fetishes initially.
 
I laughed

littlecordelera said:
I'm still struggling to get my husband to TOTG and GHFCOTF.

TOTG = Take Out The Garbage

GHFCOTF = Get His Fucking Clothes Off The Floor!
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I did both of those for my wife today. And I had the clothes off the floor yesterday too.

To answer the question: Some people are going to have hang-ups and they won't be comfortable in certain situations. I can see people who don't want their wife or significant other exposed to random strangers or men/women they know. It could be religious, cultural, or their personality.

You can try to explain all you want and he is still not going to exercise initiative and make this kind of thing happen. I mean, he's your husband. At some point, you two should have had a conversation where you explain what you want and need and he has his turn to talk about it from his point of view. If that hasn't happened yet, you should get on it and talk to him. If it has, you somehow missed his point of view.
 
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