Stamina

I'm a 28 year old woman from Texas. I've been married for 4 years, together for 8 years. I wouldn't say that my husband doesn't treat me right he just gets on my fucking nerves at times (but I guess that comes along with marriage). He is super stressed all the time with work, and by the time he gets home he only wants to sleep. I tend to get bored and watch too much porn (giving me a lot of ideas to try on him), but between a tiny bit of foreplay to the actual deed, he never lasts long enough. He's only 30.

Any tips I can get from guys here on how to prolong his stamina? (Or is stress a big factor in this?)

Minxgal86 said:

I'm a 28 year old woman from Texas. I've been married for 4 years, together for 8 years. I wouldn't say that my husband doesn't treat me right he just gets on my fucking nerves at times (but I guess that comes along with marriage). He is super stressed all the time with work, and by the time he gets home he only wants to sleep. I tend to get bored and watch too much porn (giving me a lot of ideas to try on him), but between a tiny bit of foreplay to the actual deed, he never lasts long enough. He's only 30.

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This is going to sound dull and unspontaneous, but: have you tried scheduling sex? It might mean booking in some time on the weekend when he's well rested. If there's no time anywhere in his calendar where he's got the energy to go more than a few minutes, then it may be time to have a serious talk about whether there's anything to be done to change that situation.

lol "Honey let me block out a few hours on sunday, mmk?"

I could try, but at the time his current job he is working overtime. There's usually no telling when they'll call him in to work for 12 hour shifts, and even on his off days.

I agree, he is probably overworked.... and you have too much spare time to get horny.



Apart from that, we had a long thread about that very subject here:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1025995

Thanks! I shall have a gander at it now

At his age OT shouldn't be an issue at all. He needs a real physical or you need a good bath.