MetroNYGal
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- May 23, 2014
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Anyone in the tri-state area up for some drinks and dancing?
I do have a suggestion for you though. Go geek! I'm not trying to be funny. I know its counter intuitive, but guys with poor communication skills - once you get past their barriers - can be the sweetest and most attentive companions. They also excel at beginning a relationship in writing before physically meeting.
I'll probably get this deleted by directing you off-site, but Reddit has the highest density of geeks in the civilized world. Try placing your orig post in /r/personals.
No, do NOT take that advice.
Uhh... I'm a geek and I promise you that I can sense it when somebody is faking it just as easily as a woman can smell fear and insecurity. OP, just be you. Don't try to appeal to a certain group of guys and act like you're something you're not. In hurts both parties in the long-run.
Wow that actually offended me. like wtf?
I think you misunderstood me Christopher. At no point did I ever suggest the OP be anything but herself. In fact, I think I suggested repeating her post verbatim, which I think you'll agree lays her feelings and intentions bare.
At the risk of repeating myself, what I'm suggesting is that there is a class of worthy men who are often overlooked because women are not prepared to do the work to get past their barriers.
Maybe I'm wrong, but it sounds to me like you think geeks are unworthy companions. I'm sorry, but I respectfully disagree, and so would my bf, I think.
Lostbabygirl, the post is 2 yrs old. Pretty sure the OP is no longer an active member.
Maybe she found what she was looking for, a rare feat on Lit I believe.