Seeking male 40+ with some rough edges

KimGordon67 said:

I can't remember if I'd mentioned this earlier in this particular thread, but since posting this (or maybe it was in process at the time), I've found myself in the slightly odd position of being happily married but also having a real life flesh&blood boyfriend. That was unexpected, but is proving to be ... well, complex, but good.

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WillTheWriter said:

Either you hinted at it or you mentioned it explicitly; I can't remember. Regardless, that's terrific. Complex is one way to describe it. As long as it's good, though, that's what counts. Like I said, wish I'd happened upon the thread while you were still looking. It's been fun to be part of.

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KimGordon67 said:

That does seem to have trumped the virtual experience, and left me without a lot of time/emotional energy for much else ... and he does a great job of being all the above.

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WillTheWriter said:

Real life almost always trumps virtual life. And, yes, my goodness, it sucks up time and energy. In all good ways, of course. Enjoy ...

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WykdWytch said:

great thread

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KimGordon67 said:

I can't remember if I'd mentioned this earlier in this particular thread, but since posting this (or maybe it was in process at the time), I've found myself in the slightly odd position of being happily married but also having a real life flesh&blood boyfriend. That was unexpected, but is proving to be ... well, complex, but good.

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midwestdude said:

Damn..if only I was 40!

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midwestdude said:

Ha its ok...i was just stalking your profile a bit...please dont be creeped out

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mrspank30 said:

A high tolerance for a touch of creeping that's not a bad thing

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KimGordon67 said:

OMG - this is ancient. I'm not really looking now.

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KimGordon67 said:

OMG - this is ancient. I'm not really looking now.

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BaldAndHorny said:

Conventional wisdom has it that the best finds are often discovered when we're not looking.

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KimGordon67 said:

That's true - but I think it would be fair to say that my cup currently runneth over with the results of my last unexpected discovery

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KimGordon67 said:

**Please note that the original ad was posted well over a year ago ... I'm not really 'looking' any more. It just keeps getting bumped for reasons that I can't quite get my head around. I have much more interesting and recent threads than this one if you're wanting something to read.**​

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Mac380 said:

Maybe some guys just like the chase (or being chased)

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KimGordon67 said:

That's a game I'm extremely bad at, and always have been.

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Mac380 said:

LoL we should all have little card a green one saying "come get me" and a red one....
Even then we'd get it wrong!

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KimGordon67 said:

Well, obviously you'd also need to know when to deploy the relevant cards ... as noted above, some of the best green card moments happen when you're effectively holding up the red one. There's always two people involved in that equation, and it's dependent on both of them.

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Mac380 said:

Damn this independent thought, it ruins everything!

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