eastern sun
hungry little creature
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It's a fascinating process, getting to know someone new.
And, of course, you are always bringing yourself to the relationship.
The fact that he wants to compartmentalize his own behaviors doesn't mean that you have to separate one submissive moment from the next.
I used to meet play partners for whom I had a lot of feelings, and each person wanted a different and unique set of behaviors. The constant was my submission to their desires, and the tremendous satisfaction I received in "fluidly" moving from one persona to the next.
Erotically satisfying, but also emotionally liberating, because I no longer felt so attached to any one of those behaviors as "mine." I even had to get rid of "submission" as my defining behavior when that was not what was being asked of me.
I look forward to hearing your thoughts about your experience, Cutie Mouse. Thank you for sharing them with us.