Joshua65
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- Jan 16, 2012
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My wife of 25 years and I are starting to experiment with adding a D/s dynamic into the bedroom. She has a very stressful corporate career where she's in charge all the time and wants a place where she can let all that go. We are just starting out and are trying to figure out what works for us as we go.
Though I'm very new to this, I am begining to understand the importance of establishing rules as a means of providing her a framework within which she can feel safe. A long with rules comes discipline for breaking the rules. While we have discussed spanking, neither of us are ready for that. I fully expect her to push to the boundaries of that framework to test my commitment to being her Dom.
What are people's thoughts on the effectiveness of using orgasm denial of a form of discipline? Is that likely to cause any issues that I can't forsee?
Though I'm very new to this, I am begining to understand the importance of establishing rules as a means of providing her a framework within which she can feel safe. A long with rules comes discipline for breaking the rules. While we have discussed spanking, neither of us are ready for that. I fully expect her to push to the boundaries of that framework to test my commitment to being her Dom.
What are people's thoughts on the effectiveness of using orgasm denial of a form of discipline? Is that likely to cause any issues that I can't forsee?