Ex Princess
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Ok. Sorry I singled you out for attack. I've had some bad experiences... I was in love with a girl for 6 years. She was that...well she was a lot like you describe yourself. Very sexual, mostly dated much older men and the almost were all small business owners and executive types.
She would use me to make her feel better about herself when no one else was around to do so. I would break myself in half and tear chuncks out of my heart to build her back up and then- she would drop me like a bad habit and abandon me till the next time she needed me.
Once, she ACTUALLY described how she felt about me by comparing me to her favorite pair of old jeans that lived in the bottom of her closet. AND THOUGHT IT FLATTERING!
Now that I am older and I look back, I see women like her are nothing. Once you get past the surface, there just isn't anything at all. Like a puff of perfume drifting through the air, like a pretty picture drawn in sand.
I'm glad you're not like her. Thanks for not getting upset.
Well, I think everyone would agree she sounds a bit trifling. I'm sorry some wicked girl weaseled her way into your life like that and abused your emotions and trust.
And, just to make it clear to anyone else who might read this and think I described myself like that, I don't date older men because of their "status." I just really find older men to be extremely sexy. Most of the older men I have dated have been in the military, or in a sales position, and not crazy wealthy or powerful. I know how to make my own money, and I know how to get myself off so I choose what I like, not what I need.
Anyway, there are plenty of women out there who are waiting for a men who is going to treat them well. If they play with fire like that, they will get burned and they definitely have some maturing to do.
A classy lady knows that gentlemen are like a fine wine, they just get better with age, and with age comes wrinkles and tummies. Both of those things are sexy when it is on the right person for you.
Nevyn - don't let "Ms. Thang" walk all over you next time. Find yourself a woman who appreciates all that you bring to the table and earns your trust and respect.
And any confused ladies - don't forget you have to EARN your respect too. It's not an entitlement like many women seem to believe.