Originally Posted by MaleMid50sUK
Time for another bump up the list
"Everybody's looking for something.
"Some of them want to use you
"Some of them want to get used by you
"Some of them want to abuse you
"Some of them want to be abused.
Lennox and Stewart 1983
My Ex Actually believed that if HE had a good time in bed then I must have had also. That's one reason I added him to my collection of Exes
Everybody on here has "hooks, " something we are looking for. Some of us know our "hooks" Others of us, not so much. Some of us,like me,know what our "hooks" are but don"t want to say. Not in pubic, I mean PUBLIC anyway.
I'm afraid I might get criticized or laughed at.
But if you want to hookup, or connect, you have to risk it.
Saying you are lonely or bored dorsn"t really do it, does it? You know what your "hooks" are. Why not say so in your post. Yeah, you may turn off some people by saying what you really want. But the people you turn off aren't going t wirk gir you anyway so there is no loss.
It's risky, I know. You never win if you do't place your bet.
Anyway, I'll uptown bump you up!