KimGordon67
Rampant feminist
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That will be the true polyamorous moment. We you all can meet, be warm and embracing, knowing the relationships involved.
I think kids do effect the movement to an alternative relationship, especially the desire on the part of both parents to make the best life they can for their children.
Yeah ... I'm hoping it'll all be good. I think I need to just approach it as though it WILL be good, and as if it's totally normal. Luckily I know both of them really well, so it's easy to help them both be OK with things. And I've been really careful about not pushing things with the BF - it's just an open invitation that he change his mind about at the last possible minute if he wants. That seems to have made it easier for him to say he might be there (instead of the flat-out 'no' that I got when I first suggested the idea a couple of months ago).