PineappleKevin
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Do you think this is ok? Do you think my Mom would understand my fetish? I would tell her that I'm not sexually attracted to her. I don't want to freak her out or anything.
I'm not turned on by her. I've never fantasized about her or anything. I just like the idea of masturbating while someone else was in the room. So it doesn't even have to be my Mom. Like even if it was my Mom's friend, then it would be cool too.Talk to her. In big, wide ranging circles so you can spot any verbal or visual clues that say, "No darling, that's not a very good idea," and run the fuck away before anything really dumb happens.
Also, maybe stop pretending you're not turned on by her. The clue here is you want to masturbate in her room, with her there - just pointing that out.
But she already sounds pretty cool about the fruit of her loins doing what he has to do.
The worst or best that can happen is she says 'yes' or 'no' - you need to establish your own sliding scale.
The best or worst that can happen is you get to fuck mom, or a hand job. Again, you need to establish your sliding scale of consequences and overall sensibility.
Or, go read some Romance instead of Incest for a change, and buy her some flowers. That's probably a better idea. She's your mom, for fuck's sake, flowers are nice.
Yeah technically it does fall under the category of incest, but is it really that bad? I'm not thinking of my mom naked or anything. And I don't even want her to look at me.Being watched is one thing. Being watched by your mom is another. I should think that would easily fall under the category of incest.
Maybe instead, you should try doing it in your own bed with the window coverings open. Someone is bound to see you.
Wow that was pretty harsh. That's the reason why even I want to ask her in the first place. If she's not comfortable with it, then I'll never bring it up again. Seriously why am I being defamed her?
I agree its disrespectful to do it without her permission or if it makes her uncomfortable, which I why I don't want to do that. The last thing I want to do is spoil our relationship.you said: "I once even masturbated while we were in the same room. We were on vacation and were sleeping on the same bed. Late at night I started watching porn the laptop and was masturbating. She noticed what I was doing and I told her '' Can you please turn the other way? I'm kinda busy here. ''. She just turned the other way and said '' Ughh alright do what you have to do. '' She wasn't uncomfortable or anything, she just left me to it."
My input as a mom of a 30 year old guy who would never attempt to masturbate in front of me out of respect for me as his mom..... Your mom tried to tell you she isn't comfortable with it. Sure, she is open with you as that is more normal these days.... but that does not mean she wants this from you. It does not mean she is OK with you going at in with her in the room or the bed. More likely she remembers being your age & recalls what it is like to need to get relief so she extends a measure of motherly tolerance.
I think this is what other people are trying to tell you. You are being disrespectful to your mom each & every time you do this. Why be so inconsiderate of your mom... who is clearly also providing a roof over your head despite your being over the age of 18.
If you want an audience, find a friend.
Hi I'm a 23 year old guy. I live with my Mom. She's single and been divorced for 14 years.
Before I proceed, I just want to make it clear that we do not have an incestuous relationship. We're not attracted to each other like that... I have this fetish, where I get turned on by the emotion of shame and humiliation. Like if someone were to see me completely naked and with my dick in my hand, it turns me on, because I know I'm in a vulnerable and exposed state.
And I sometimes keep my room door wide open while I masturbate to porn. I masturbate while I'm completely naked. Sometimes my Mom happens to walk by and notices what I'm doing. She doesn't stop and stare though, she just notices me masturbating and just pays it no mind.
So my Mom has seen me naked and masturbating. She's never really had any problem with it. She's never told me to shut my door or anything, but she's not sexually turned on by me either. She simply has no problem with it.
She thinks masturbation is healthy and its fine that I do it.
I once even masturbated while we were in the same room. We were on vacation and were sleeping on the same bed. Late at night I started watching porn the laptop and was masturbating.
She noticed what I was doing and I told her '' Can you please turn the other way? I'm kinda busy here. ''. She just turned the other way and said '' Ughh alright do what you have to do. '' She wasn't uncomfortable or anything, she just left me to it.
Anyways off late I have considered asking my Mom if I could take my laptop to her room, and fap to some porn on it. She doesn't have to look at me. She doesn't even have to pretend like I'm there. She can just continue minding her own business. She works on the computer a lot. So I thought while she's working on the computer, I could just watch some porn on her bed.
Do you think this is ok?
Do you think my Mom would understand my fetish? I would tell her that I'm not sexually attracted to her. I don't want to freak her out or anything.
[UPDATE: I forgot to say this. There was one time where I took one of my Mom's panties to my room and used it to get off. My mom came into my room the next day and found it. She just asked '' Why are my panties under your pillow? ''. I then lied and said it was my ex-girlfriend's panties. She didn't believe it though.
The next day she asked me again '' Why were my panties under your pillow? Are you attracted to me? ''. She wasn't freaking out or anything, she just sounded casual and a perplexed. I said '' Noo! I just like panties in general because they turn me on. '' She said '' Oh ok haha, for a minute there I thought you had a thing for me. ''. So yeah my Mom was able to understand this and she wasn't freaked out by it. So would she be freaked out by my favor?]
I remember having a 23-year-old lad living with me. Loved him dearly, still do, but it was a great day when he moved out and found his own place.
This is an incestuous relationship. You're using your mom for sexual gratification.
And, frankly, when an adult male is stroking his dick in the presence of a woman who hasn't invited that exhibition, it's NOT the guy who is in a "vulnerable state".
No, you don't know that. There is a world of difference between "doesn't mind" and "doesn't visibly react".
Are you telepathic, or is this merely what you want to believe?
Pooping is healthy and it's fine that everybody does it, but that doesn't mean I want people taking a shit in front of me.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ugh
ugh: used to indicate the sound of a cough or grunt or to express disgust or horror
http://www.dictionary.com/browse/ugh used as an exclamation expressing disgust, aversion, horror, or the like
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/ugh
the written form of the sound people sometimes use to express a strong feeling of disgust at something very unpleasant
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/ugh#dataset-british
used to express a strong feeling of disgust (= disapproval and dislike) at something very unpleasant
This is not a word that people use when they're comfortable with the situation.
No.
Have you considered not inflicting your sex life on her?
Woman in "able to recognise her own underwear" shock.
Where are you getting "wasn't freaked out" from?
Nothing about this situation is okay. Most likely scenario is that your mother is tolerating your behaviour because she's out of her depth and afraid of how you might react if she tells you to knock it off. Wanking in front of one's mother is so massively out of the norm that there's no social script for how to handle this.
Anxiety sucks and masturbation for sexual gratification is fine, but jerking off in front of people who haven't invited it is not okay.
THIS.
Care to explain when exactly I did that? No really elaborate. Because in the vacation incident, I had done it only after she went to sleep. I had turned to my side of the bed was watching porn because I was horny. I didn't go in front of her and whip out my thing did I? She woke up herself minutes later. Now the fact that she woke up had turned me on, sure, but still I was just doing my own thing. And she was ok with it, because she later laughed about it. If she was offended, she would have slapped me the moment she found out.
So please tell me where exactly I went wrong?
This would be a lot easier to take if you wanted to fuck your mother. At least I can (almost) wrap my mind around that.
You should have gone into the bathroom.
Also the reason I'm living with her is because I'm stuck in a rut at the moment (career wise). My mom knows about this and is supportive and we're trying to find a way to get myself out of the rut.
Wow that's weird. Because that's actually crossing the line. How does it matter what's going on in my head? All I want to do is politely ask her if I can masturbate in her room. If she says no, then I'll never bring it up again. If she says yeah, then woo hoo.
Honestly why are people having such a hard time with understanding this!? I'm not trying to disrespect my Mom in any way. My Mom knows I'm sexually frustrated because of all my issues and I was wondering if she'd understand that.
I know she doesn't have a problem with it, because she's never told me. We have a really open relationship and we talk about everything. If she was offended, she would have told me. We tell each other absolutely everything. Trust me when I say '' very open relationship ''. She's asked me questions about my penis, how much porn I watch, and she's made fun of the times she's seen me masturbating. She's not attracted to me, but she's really open about these sorts of things.
BTW I don't invite her into my room while I do it or anything like that, I just leave the door open whether she walks by or not. I don't even know if she's going to walk by. She sometimes sees me, and has no problem with it.
And also I don't want to do it in front of her. I'm just talking about doing it in the same room, even if its in two different parts of the room and neither of us are looking at each other.
And my mom is not afraid of '' How I might react. '' She's very upfront and direct and not afraid to give me a piece of her mind.
And how am I doing it without her permission? This is the whole reason why I want to ask her in the first place. I've never gone into her room without her permission and done it.
Also the reason I'm living with her is because I'm stuck in a rut at the moment (career wise). My mom knows about this and is supportive and we're trying to find a way to get myself out of the rut.
Wow that's weird. Because that's actually crossing the line. How does it matter what's going on in my head? All I want to do is politely ask her if I can masturbate in her room. If she says no, then I'll never bring it up again. If she says yeah, then woo hoo.
Honestly why are people having such a hard time with understanding this!? I'm not trying to disrespect my Mom in any way. My Mom knows I'm sexually frustrated because of all my issues and I was wondering if she'd understand that.
I can't take the laptop into the bathroom. And my Mom did not have any problems with the fact that I was masturbating on my side of the bed. She was cool with it. The fact that she turned away when I asked her to, simply indicates that she's not interested in me sexually. But she's comfortable enough to be in the same bed while I was doing it. So again I don't know what I did wrong.
Yeah maybe my relationship with my Mom is a little weird. We're more open than most mothers and sons. She's often asked me '' How big is your penis when its erect? ''. Not in a sexual way, she's just curious. But that's not a question that most Mothers would ask their sons in a such a casual way. We're just a little weird like that. But she's never once told me that my behavior was inappropriate. She once even walked into my room while I was masturbating and said '' Don't do this now because I have a friend coming over to the house. ''.
If any of this is true, your mom is the vulnerable victim here. When you are presented with reasons why this is not okay, you are justifiying it, adding information and victim blaming to convince yourself that this kind of abuse was okay.
Sleep in your own bed. Shut the door. Leave your mom alone.