Does size really matter?

Does Size really matter?

  • Yes size matters

    Votes: 66 70.2%
  • No anything is ok

    Votes: 28 29.8%

  • Total voters
    94

shyman1969

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The age old question, does size really matter? Often times men when they see a woman are often looking at her breasts, have you heard the expression "tit man"? While it's not as easy for women to determine the size of a man until undressed.

Men, do the size of a woman's breasts make a difference to you?
Women, what about the size of a man's penis does it matter?

of course, if you have stories to share feel free to share them.
 
The age old question, does size really matter? Often times men when they see a woman are often looking at her breasts, have you heard the expression "tit man"? While it's not as easy for women to determine the size of a man until undressed.

Men, do the size of a woman's breasts make a difference to you?
Women, what about the size of a man's penis does it matter?

of course, if you have stories to share feel free to share them.

Breast size not really, no matter whose they are still want to see them and suck/play with them.

Cock size yes I think makes a big difference especially when it's got some girth to it
 
Size does matter but not like you think. I am a sissy and I like regular nice guy cocks

as breasts go I like small firm but appreciate all
 
I'll play -
no guy has ever walked out the door because of the size of my breasts
so far have never seen the famous porn size guy - normal is very nice
 
Not to me, I'm an absolute slag, I'll shag anyone!

More seriously, a mans' penis size is supposed to be a sexual
marker, you see.

Tits, no, I like women with small ones.
An old friend finally revealed hers to me. My herbal doctor.

Those things stood up like bloody rifle bullets!

OMG can I have a suck of those?

So it went on!
 
For me, I can enjoy both flat chests and reasonably big boobs. I very much dislike really huge tits, especially silicone ones. That's a preference, not a rule, and in relationship size will get overshadowed by other traits anyway. For example, I won't watch porn with huge tits in it, but if I happen to meet a nice girl with those breasts - it won't stop me from dating her and loving her. It's not a deal breaker.

I'd say that with every breast size you should be mindful of how you dress and how you shape the rest of your body up (your hair, for example, or the slimness you are going for.). So it's a matter of conscious planning to make your size work for you, but even completely flat girls can be simply stunning.

So no, chest size on it's own doesn't really matter. What matters is how you dress it up to make it advantageous.

That said, there are men who strongly prefer certain size. BUT this goes both ways, as I knew men who actually preferred smaller tits - that turned them on more than big boobs.
It's like with hair color really. Some will like blondes, some will like dark hair more. Some will not care at all. But it's not like blonde-lover can't fall in love with a brunette - it's not a deal breaker anyway. The same way, chest size is never a deal breaker for men, I think.

I'm not a woman but I'll contribute to a second part two. Size does make a difference when it comes to sex. Up to a certain point, bigger is better.
And it can also be too small. Most women will find it hard to be satisfied with a 2" cock, and then again they will think 10" is clearly too big.
But when we talk average sizes - they will mostly work fine, as long as you know what to do with them.
 
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I’m firmly in the camp that believes cock size is far less important than attitude. My husband is, l suppose, about an average 6-7 inches and he has no problem giving me orgasms because he spends the time making sure l’m enjoying it. My Daddy was much the same.

I’ve only once had the experience of one of those mythical giants and it was black. It was very nice but very often it’s the man behind the cock that matters.
 
Breast size does not matter at all to me. I'm a leg man, so if she has lovely legs, I don't even notice her breasts...until later.
 
I’m firmly in the camp that believes cock size is far less important than attitude. My husband is, l suppose, about an average 6-7 inches and he has no problem giving me orgasms because he spends the time making sure l’m enjoying it. My Daddy was much the same.

I’ve only once had the experience of one of those mythical giants and it was black. It was very nice but very often it’s the man behind the cock that matters.

I agree.
 
I'm only 7 inches.

Not sure it does matter.

It's a sexual marker, no doubts there, but is
he a good lover?

Being a good lover is more complicated, you need to ensure
she's had an orgasm before you tip your hat and go.
 
It doesn't matter to me/us. Any cock that can fill our holes with cum is fine with us.
 
I second the need for a like button

I feel like like too small is too small, however there is such a thing as too big. I remember the first time I had my husband, in college. I was seeing a few other guys at the time.

I remember thinking wow! This is perfect. Then I knew how Goldilocks felt. Then when he whispered into my ear. "Teach me how to make you cum." Wow I would have married him right there.

I’m firmly in the camp that believes cock size is far less important than attitude. My husband is, l suppose, about an average 6-7 inches and he has no problem giving me orgasms because he spends the time making sure l’m enjoying it. My Daddy was much the same.

I’ve only once had the experience of one of those mythical giants and it was black. It was very nice but very often it’s the man behind the cock that matters.
 
I’m firmly in the camp that believes cock size is far less important than attitude. My husband is, l suppose, about an average 6-7 inches and he has no problem giving me orgasms because he spends the time making sure l’m enjoying it. My Daddy was much the same.

I’ve only once had the experience of one of those mythical giants and it was black. It was very nice but very often it’s the man behind the cock that matters.

6-7 inches is way above average.

properly run studies find the average length to be in the 5.2 - 5.5 inch range.

Girth - 4 - 4.25 inches.
 
I'm only 7 inches.

Not sure it does matter.

It's a sexual marker, no doubts there, but is
he a good lover?

Being a good lover is more complicated, you need to ensure
she's had an orgasm before you tip your hat and go.

only 7?? you;re probably in the top 10% in length
 
only 7?? you;re probably in the top 10% in length
I disagree. 6-7 inches is average. About 70% of men have at least that. 8-9 inches is big, then everything above this would be too large for many women.
 
I disagree. 6-7 inches is average. About 70% of men have at least that. 8-9 inches is big, then everything above this would be too large for many women.

google penis size studies.

the ones that are done scientifically, and measure correctly don't agree with your thoughts.
 
google penis size studies.

the ones that are done scientifically, and measure correctly don't agree with your thoughts.
any good ones? Because I can't find reliable studies.
 
Sure it matters. It’s well down the list of things that matter and it isn’t strictly a bigger is better. But it isn’t utterly irrelevant.

If I was building the perfect man his cock would be 8” and thick but not too thick for deep throat or anal. And I don’t know anyone who would choose a micro penis.

Yes the man it is attached to is far more important than his cock size. No I wouldn’t reject a man for having a small dick. But those are answers to a question that wasn’t asked. Unless I read the question wrong it is a yes or no.
 
Sure it matters. It’s well down the list of things that matter and it isn’t strictly a bigger is better. But it isn’t utterly irrelevant.

If I was building the perfect man his cock would be 8” and thick but not too thick for deep throat or anal. And I don’t know anyone who would choose a micro penis.

Yes the man it is attached to is far more important than his cock size. No I wouldn’t reject a man for having a small dick. But those are answers to a question that wasn’t asked. Unless I read the question wrong it is a yes or no.


If it didn’t matter at all women who answer with a simple “no”. The more the deflect the question the more it seems that it does matter, at least a bit,
 
Yes, it matters

Yes, the size of a prospective partner's functioning brain does matter to me.
 
With regard to breasts, I'm on the smaller is better side of the discussion. A cups to Ds if they are firm and pert. A nice bra goes along way to displaying a less than perfect pair in an attractive manner.

As for the male member, mine is a bit over 6 and 5 1/2 girth. Pretty normal, I think. Standard condoms are too tight. Magnums for me. They feel much better.
 
I love (almost obsessed with) large breasts. In most cases the bigger the better. I won’t pursue a woman with small or no breasts. Nothing against them personally, I’m sure they’re sexy in other ways but large breasts are a must have.
As far as cock size is concerned, I am average length (6 inches) but I have been told that I am wider/girthier than most so I have that going for me. I don’t seek out dick but I would imagine it would matter to a certain extent to the ladies, ie; if a guy was particularly small.
 
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