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andy371

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Never tried it and never will but somehow it is now my favorite fantasy _ watching my wife with another man. Especially if it's interracial. I'm reading the stories and watching vids Am I alone?
 
andy371 said:
Never tried it and never will but somehow it is now my favorite fantasy _ watching my wife with another man. Especially if it's interracial. I'm reading the stories and watching vids Am I alone?
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i think its thrilling to think about, have talked to the wife, but haven't done it yet!
 
Yeah ive fantasized about being the one fucking another mans wife and mocking the husband but not if its my wife
 
My favorite form of cuckolding is when I'm the other guy doing the wife, not the one being cuckolded. But if anybody wants to see his wife done by another guy, I'd be happy to provide my services, ;)
 
Like it love it. Not eating or drinking cum. We love watching each other. We swap with other couples. Group parties. Or a couple of the guys come over and take turns with her.
 
andy371 said:
Never tried it and never will but somehow it is now my favorite fantasy _ watching my wife with another man. Especially if it's interracial. I'm reading the stories and watching vids Am I alone?
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In my opinion, a cuckold, in the modern sense as a sexual fetish, is not just someone who enjoys the idea, or the actuality, of watching his wife have sex with another man. If watching or participating in a loving and inclusive arrangement where the other guy is just a marital aid, a flesh and blood dildo so to speak, to enhance the married couples lovemaking, that is not cuckoldry.

To be cuckoldry there needs to be an extra element. an element of humiliation, ignominy, shame and degradation for the husband. Being put down for being a lesser man than the lover, having a smaller cock and/or not lasting as long. That is cuckoldry in the modern sense.

I love the idea of my wife being fucked by other males, but I'm not a cuckold. Any suggestion of me being humiliated would not work for me.
 
andy371 said:
Never tried it and never will but somehow it is now my favorite fantasy _ watching my wife with another man. Especially if it's interracial. I'm reading the stories and watching vids Am I alone?
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It has always been a fantasy of mine as well.
 
Like most porn, there are levels to how extreme the topic is. Wife sharing, couple swapping or even coming home with creampies or pussy on my cock is a big turn on in our relationship.
 
magicalmoments said:
To be cuckoldry there needs to be an extra element. an element of humiliation, ignominy, shame and degradation for the husband. Being put down for being a lesser man than the lover, having a smaller cock and/or not lasting as long. That is cuckoldry in the modern sense.

I love the idea of my wife being fucked by other males, but I'm not a cuckold. Any suggestion of me being humiliated would not work for me.
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What if the husband is not humiliated because he accepts the fact that the other male is better in bed? Is that husband a cuckold?
 
Cuckoldry is a big turn on for me. Its all part of my submissive nature - it goes along quite well with my other fetishes of : small penis humiliation, forced fem and forced bi.
 
Goldminingsux said:
i think its thrilling to think about, have talked to the wife, but haven't done it yet!
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interesting!

Have to admit that your comment gave me an idea. Imagine if you will, two couples out for dinner and something happened, either the waiter was a flirt (or last time one of the couples went out to eat the waiter was a flirt and the wife worked it as they drank for free), or the two couples are talking about a new movie or book with a menage theme and the guys get worked up and the wives are curious as they didn't think MFM or cuckold was something the 'husbands' would like ....

one of the wives reaches over and feels her husband's erection and she tells the other wife...in turn she finds her husband just as hard

which leads to a new round of questions ... and thoughts .....
 
A real cuckold doesn't know that he's being cuckolded. His wife and her lover know, and the rest of the community may know, but he doesn't. Hence having a fetish about it is pretty much impossible. Any other use of the term is just plain incorrect.
 
magicalmoments said:
In my opinion, a cuckold, in the modern sense as a sexual fetish, is not just someone who enjoys the idea, or the actuality, of watching his wife have sex with another man. If watching or participating in a loving and inclusive arrangement where the other guy is just a marital aid, a flesh and blood dildo so to speak, to enhance the married couples lovemaking, that is not cuckoldry.

To be cuckoldry there needs to be an extra element. an element of humiliation, ignominy, shame and degradation for the husband. Being put down for being a lesser man than the lover, having a smaller cock and/or not lasting as long. That is cuckoldry in the modern sense.

I love the idea of my wife being fucked by other males, but I'm not a cuckold. Any suggestion of me being humiliated would not work for me.
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BINGO! I agree. People talk about "swapping" or "swinging" or "threesomes" as cuckolding but that's just a different form of sex play. In my mind, cuckolding implies that the cuckold sees or knows about his wife being "used" by another guy but in effect feels some level of humiliation because of it. He is second best, gets sloppy seconds if any at all. Perhaps he tells himself he may have to try harder or just wallows in his shame. I can applaud a guy who gets off sharing his wife in a threesome or swapping with another couple(s), but I have to feel a bit "sorry" for a cuckold, even though it may be something that is a bit of turn on for him. In my book, a cuckold gets some sort of pleasure in "losing".
 
amofiga said:
BINGO! I agree. People talk about "swapping" or "swinging" or "threesomes" as cuckolding but that's just a different form of sex play. In my mind, cuckolding implies that the cuckold sees or knows about his wife being "used" by another guy but in effect feels some level of humiliation because of it. He is second best, gets sloppy seconds if any at all. Perhaps he tells himself he may have to try harder or just wallows in his shame. I can applaud a guy who gets off sharing his wife in a threesome or swapping with another couple(s), but I have to feel a bit "sorry" for a cuckold, even though it may be something that is a bit of turn on for him. In my book, a cuckold gets some sort of pleasure in "losing".
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This.
 
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